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Harry Needs Mental Health Help
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Heartache
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by LittleEgg:
“Pretty sad case of some growing up in care, and the negative impact it can have on character. Either that or just no quality of upbringing period...angry, confused, gobby, terribly insecure person.

If nick ditched her properly(as he clearly should) in the house, i assure you guys she would break down 100%...probably to the point she'd need removing.”

She has not been in care, this is her Bio from her own website, reads differently to the Cinderella spin she has given in the house.

http://www.harryamelia.co.uk/biography
weelass2010
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by crazymanc:
“I was in care and had no quality upbringing i was how the saying goes dragged up not brought up but i am no way like she is bit of a ignorent comment to say shes like that because she was in care!”

Crazymanc.
I take my hat off to you.xx
You have to remember, and I say this with knowledge. Mental Illness is passed on through the genes, (and no I don't have the gene he was an ex) may skip a generation but it is the dark horse.
Bless You
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by JVB69:
“Nice way of putting it!!! Most genuinely mentally ill people do not go out screaming that they are sick or that they have issues. They are usually too ill to do that. If she had been diagnosed aa a psychopath then she would not be as upset as she is and would definitely not be allowed in the house.”

Indeed. Well said.

What Harry needs is to grow the f@*! Up and quit behaving like a five year old.
Jennyloo
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by digichant:
“You're not entitled to accuse someone of being mentally ill when you don't know anything about mental illness or how to diagnose it.”

It didn't look like an accusation to me, which is what you are doing. It looked like an opinion to me, which I share . There are different levels of mental illness. I think what the OP was trying to say is that she needs help, more likely through therapy. She may already have had some. But the truth is she acts very disturbed. I don't think it's an act though.
scotslassie
08-07-2015
She's jealous and possessive of Nick and is acting out. It's a shame she's doing all that on telly. She'll be embarrassed when she grows up.
digichant
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by Jennyloo:
“It didn't look like an accusation to me, which is what you are doing. It looked like an opinion to me, which I share . There are different levels of mental illness. I think what the OP was trying to say is that she needs help, more likely through therapy. She may already have had some. But the truth is she acts very disturbed. I don't think it's an act though.”

What's the difference.. either way she is being diagnosed as mentally ill by someone who probably knows nothing about it. It is an opinion while also being an accusation.
Syntax Error
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by Dave_62:
“Is harrys wife real or is it some kind of personality inside her head?”

Good question.

I am beginning to wonder this too.
Dave_62
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by Syntax Error:
“Good question.

I am beginning to wonder this too.”

Was the letter from home from her wife? That was a cold letter.

It's really confusing g because I don't think it has been explained. She just avoids it and giggles and leaves others to fill in the blanks. She could have just said "my housemate is my best mate and I call her my wife as a joke ".
CLIVE_Smith
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by Dave_62:
“Was the letter from home from her wife? That was a cold letter.

It's really confusing g because I don't think it has been explained. She just avoids it and giggles and leaves others to fill in the blanks. She could have just said "my housemate is my best mate and I call her my wife as a joke ".”

The letter was from her sister, she told Nick that when they were having a fag, i think she calls her best friend her wife because they are really close.
yellowlabbie
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by Heartache:
“This, she is very camera aware, and would make more sense of her charging across the room to put herself in the middle of Jack and Chloe's arguement.

Sulking on the bench in the garden all day.

Don't know why she is making Jack her target, other than he is the easiest for her to manipulate.”

I remember Aaron sulking for days on end and he won his show. Many posters on here loved it.
radders2012
08-07-2015
I think initially Harry went over to stop Jack - she was trying to say remember that Chloe is supposed to be his friend (which she was saying whilst everyone else was wading in on her) Oh and Danny saying leave it - wow.

All the ensuing histrionics was her throwing the HMs own words back at them - I am constantly hearing from other HMs that she has issue. Plus, as someone earlier said, to shut them down.

Interesting to see Nick stand up to her - shame he never stood up for her

I don't think she did herself any favours mind you, she came across as a bit of a dick
vald
08-07-2015
She could benefit from some help, but she'd have to see the need for it, and while she keeps blaming everyone else I don't think she will. IMO she likes having 'issues' as an excuse for her behaviour.
CLIVE_Smith
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by vald:
“She could benefit from some help, but she'd have to see the need for it, and while she keeps blaming everyone else I don't think she will. IMO she likes having 'issues' as an excuse for her behaviour.”

The first thing she needs to do is stop being jealous and possessive that will help
jp761
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by weelass2010:
“She is probably bipolar, with her mood swings she reminds me of an ex,exhausting to be with 24/7 especially when they are on a high and draining the life out of you when they are low. (Bipolar is a mental illness).”

Yeah obviously it is a mental illness. As I said if she does have any mental illness my opinion is it would be bipolar.
jp761
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by vald:
“She could benefit from some help, but she'd have to see the need for it, and while she keeps blaming everyone else I don't think she will. IMO she likes having 'issues' as an excuse for her behaviour.”

'Issues' could mean she has been diagnosed with something at some point. But she just doesn't want to say.
vald
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by CLIVE_Smith:
“The first thing she needs to do is stop being jealous and possessive that will help ”

That's as useful as telling a depressive that they should pull themselves together.
LittleEgg
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by crazymanc:
“I was in care and had no quality upbringing i was how the saying goes dragged up not brought up but i am no way like she is bit of a ignorent comment to say shes like that because she was in care!”

Its not ignorant in the slightest, just because you were not effected(glad to hear), doesn't change the fact many MANY people are. Dark things often happen with some kids growing up in care/rough families/people having kids for the wrong reasons(benefits maybe)...its just as simple as that. Its not like i made a sweeping comment about everyone in care being like this.

Anyway another poster has said she wasn't in care so just lack of parental guidance then perhaps, or simply mental illness...whatever the case may be she seems seriously damaged.
CLIVE_Smith
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by vald:
“That's as useful as telling a depressive that they should pull themselves together.”

True but she must know how she is treating Nick, Nick has no backbone either , I remember when she told Helen she doesn't want to ruin Nick's experience in the house how laughable is that, i've gone of her she has a wife but still kisses, cuddles and tells everyone how much she wants to have sex with Nick i'm done
LittleEgg
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by Heartache:
“She has not been in care, this is her Bio from her own website, reads differently to the Cinderella spin she has given in the house.

http://www.harryamelia.co.uk/biography”

thanks for the link, however i only got as far as "She started out in the fashion industry as a commercial, catwalk and high fashion model"

Then i simply couldn't continue to read such BS. Catwalk modelling???...bs for many obvious reasons over, not least the massive slouch.
Jennyloo
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by JVB69:
“Nice way of putting it!!! Most genuinely mentally ill people do not go out screaming that they are sick or that they have issues. They are usually too ill to do that. If she had been diagnosed aa a psychopath then she would not be as upset as she is and would definitely not be allowed in the house.”

She maybe bi polar so what's your point. Who said anything about psychopath, that's a bit extreme.
vald
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by CLIVE_Smith:
“True but she must know how she is treating Nick, Nick has no backbone either , I remember when she told Helen she doesn't want to ruin Nick's experience in the house how laughable is that, i've gone of her she has a wife but still kisses, cuddles and tells everyone how much she wants to have sex with Nick i'm done”

Oh I think she knows, but her feelings are the most important thing to her and she's hardly aware of the needs and feelings of others, despite what she says. I think she talks about sex to embarass Nick. He's a pretty calm bloke but she knows this will fluster him. Despite her job I don't think she's that interested in sex, it's just something that gives her power, and of course a tidy income.

I'm tired of her and her antics now.
Jennyloo
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by yellowlabbie:
“I remember Aaron sulking for days on end and he won his show. Many posters on here loved it.”

I will never get over how he won. He was dreadful. The worst winner ever! That's saying something.
CLIVE_Smith
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by vald:
“Oh I think she knows, but her feelings are the most important thing to her and she's hardly aware of the needs and feelings of others, despite what she says. I think she talks about sex to embarass Nick. He's a pretty calm bloke but she knows this will fluster him. Despite her job I don't think she's that interested in sex, it's just something that gives her power, and of course a tidy income.

I'm tired of her and her antics now.”

Yes your right Vald but did you watch the live feed when she told everyone how much she wanted to have sex with Nick and the golf buggy Nick wasn't even there when she said it so your comment makes no sense
Jennyloo
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by digichant:
“What's the difference.. either way she is being diagnosed as mentally ill by someone who probably knows nothing about it. It is an opinion while also being an accusation.”

I think your being too pedantic. A few on here have said she could be bi polar. I see nothing wrong in suggesting that.
vald
08-07-2015
Originally Posted by CLIVE_Smith:
“Yes your right Vald but did you watch the live feed when she told everyone how much she wanted to have sex with Nick and the golf buggy Nick wasn't even there when she said it so your comment makes no sense”

I missed that. But I have heard her tell people that she talks like that to see him squirm and she does like making those sort of remarks to him. I don't think for a minute she means it, it's just become a running joke. I think that Nick is still at the stage of his development that anything over 30 seconds would be an achievement for him.
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