When Aisleyne was doing her Therapy Room, she told Harry that she thought she was not very good at being loved, whereas she took criticism pretty well.

This does seem to be the case and is typical of certain personality disorders.

In fact I'm surprised Denise Robertson didn't mention this. She did say Harry needs our love.

Harry does not need love or even want it. She throws everything back in peoples face when they try to be nice to her. I have know people like this and they are waste of time trying to help. You spend so much time and effort on them and never get anywhere. you are better off trying to help some one who will respond to it.

In time Harry will learn the hard way you need to let people to help you if you really want to change. I it needs to be tough love to hold a mirror up to her so she can see the monster she has become.