Originally Posted by FunboyFandango:
“We always judge hm's by impossibly high standards. If they don't act in what we consider to be 'the right way' 100% of the time our judgments beco
me incredibly brutal and harsh. Do we set the same unrealistically high standards for ourselves?
Could we all honestly say that we would definitely have challenged Danny afterwards? If I'm being completely honest with myself I don't think I whould, yet I don't class myself as a 'fake coward'.
The harsh truth is I probably wouldn't have spoken up for Sam either. It would have been much easier to go along with the group, rather than show a little bit of kindness and support to Sam, even though it wouldn't have saved her.
I think there is a lot of fakeness in that house with people doing things in a calculated manner in order to 'look good'. Nick did what he did knowing he wouldn't get any recognition for it, it was a genuinely altruistic thing to do. Especially when you consider she was getting boos from outside the house too, so Nick knew he wasn't going to 'look good' in front of the viewers or his fellow hm's.
He did a kind thing, yes he slipped up afterwards, because he is an insecure guy. He wants to fit in so he fell back into the group consensus. Who can really blame him?”
Perfectly put. I loved Nick when he went in but I gradually went off him when the very weakness you‘re describing allowed him to be emasculated by two strong woman and furthermore when he could not support them, when necessary, in the face of strong opposition.
But over the past two weeks as I‘ve watched the multiple personas, foebles and differing temperaments of all the hms - due to the disruption caused by Mark, the legends and guests- I‘ve realised he is a really decent guy, the perfect example of kindess and an oasis of calm in an otherwise tempestuous sea of BB desperation, unpleasantness and greed.
Originally Posted by lulu g:
“Then again, the money is of no consequence to Nick.”
The final of BB and the ultimate thrill of being a BB winner is, however, of much consequence to him as a massive BB fan.