Originally Posted by yogacats:
“Yeah ... I said that when my parents didn't like the guy I was dating.
17 years later he'd nearly ruined me with his controlling and abusive bullying, got us into a mountain of debt which *I* had to pay off, he screwed up the kids' heads and they are still damaged and when I finally managed to escape, he carried out a harassment campaign against me till I changed my name and moved to another part of the country.
Good luck Nick ................. you're gonna need it!”
Wow, that's shitty, sorry to hear it.
It isn't about Harry though is it, just a projection of your experience onto her future life, without any real idea of how she would behave in a relationship with Nick or anybody.
In reality, I imagine they will shag a few times then both pootle off on their merry way. Nick's only 20 after all, Harry not much older than that but with different life experiences, they are hardly love's young dream