Originally Posted by Jocolah:
“What 'standards' might they be I wonder? Also, there is no such thing as a 'white way of life'. So being a dumb Essex person is part of a white way of life in that county? Lifestyles are much to do with where people are from and class, not their colour/race.”
Standards as in what it takes to be an accepted female in society. So don't wonder. It's obvious as we see them every day. A woman sleeps with two men, she's a slapper; a man sleeps with two women, he's a stud (not my beliefs). I FEEL i.e. my opinion. Is that if a black woman were to exhibit traits remotely similar to say Jade did this season, she would be villified. I love Jade btw. Or it may be a case (as I have stated) of Big Brother picking the 'wrong types of black women'.
I am sensitive about this issue as I am black from a single parent family. I look up to strong black women and although Big Brother is no way a paradigm for living life, it would be nice to see a black girl who does well in there for being ' a normal girl' like Chloe. I don't think it will ever happen.
Me mentioning 'a white way of life' is me being politically incorrect.
When the majority of people think of Essex and then Towie, do they think of a black guy or girl? Dreadlocks? No. That's my point. Basically following attributes that are successful for white people as Brian embarrassingly tries to pull of (even claiming he started TOWIE).
Now please don't try and jump in saying I think we are a different species but the UK was predominently white and was represented as that in the majority of TV programmes, films etc It is my own chip on my shoulder that means I sometimes do still think of programmes like Towie as predominantly white for one reason, not that it's racist but a hot black lad or girl just wouldn't fit their image.
That's an essay but please, don't try and be dismissive etc based on trying to score bitchy points. I'm a black man and these are my views on how I've felt throughout watching Big Brother my entire life and all of the women that have been involved in it.