Why does this woman feel the need to tell people how they should be behaving in the Big Brother House? It was exactly the same when she said, 'People need to remember that this isn't Little House on the Prairie, it's Big Brother.' She meant that they should stop getting on so well, because that's not what the show is for. Well excuse me madam, but I believe Big Brother is about setting a group of characters loose in a House and watching what happens to them, and it's a different dynamic every year. People can behave how they bloody well want to in the House - if they behave in a way the viewers don't like, they'll be voted out, and that's how the show works. What stops the show from working is if everyone is playing up to the cameras to fill a certain role - people stop trusting the Housemates, viewers argue about it on forums like this and the winner is fairly arbitrary, and becomes more damage limitation than the person people actually wanted to support.
By telling people that they're boring and they need to behave differently because of the situation, Helen is monopolising opinions on what Big Brother is about. What right does she have to determine whether someone is worth being in the House, worth winning, worth receiving support or not? She has the right to state her opinion, yes, but no more than we all do. She states her opinion as fact, and seems to consider herself to be the font of all Big Brother wisdom. I'm sick and tired of her 'just being honest' approach - being honest is fine, but I don't like the way she interprets what honesty is. To me, honesty is about telling the truth about what you believe and not being deliberately deceitful. Helen seems to think that it means saying what you think all the time - actually, that isn't true; it is entirely reasonable for an honest person to hold back on an opinion, so long as they aren't deliberately pretending something else. Under Helen's interpretation, anyone who is nice to someone they don't like is dishonest, because they're not being genuine; she doesn't grasp the fact that sometimes people are friendly and polite simply because they are nice people, even when they don't like the other person very much.
And also, Helen's understanding of honesty is based purely around the way that she behaves, and those who she agrees with. If someone else used the same tactic and she didn't agree with them, she would make every point against them that I have just made, completely ignoring the fact that you could say the same about her. I have seen her do that several times, the most obvious one being when Victor came in and she said to Big Brother, 'I can't believe you've brought someone in here just to cause trouble' - pot kettle black! I don't know if she's just trying to make a controversial name for herself, or if she actually has so little self-awareness that she doesn't realise how she comes across to people. Sometimes I actually think it's the second one - there are times when she's actually all right, and I wonder if she actually is completely oblivious to how she looks when she goes off on one. I'm not sure if I dislike her, or if I'm just immensely sorry for her. Either way, I think she could really, really do with some self-reflection.