Since Nick has left the house he has not been in contact hardly with any other housemates not even been home she has him on lock IMO plus have you seen he's hand wouldn't be surprised if she did that the film Misery comes to mind

What's happened to you? Before you seemed staunchly PRO Harry now you comparing her to Annie Wilkes

I was pro Harry but can see all the signs of someone being controlled it's happened to me in my younger days

That must please you no end considering that you can't stand the bloke and have never had a good word to say about him.

And you didn't realise that before when she was actually in the house?

Vald i no you don't like me which is cool Nick is not my favourite person but when i was 20 i was controlled by a gf and it was the worst time of my life would never wish this on Nick EVER i

I dont think so. She would hardly instruct him to put his tongue down Nikki's throat, would she?

It's not that I don't like you, don't be daft, it's more that you see everything as black and white...people just aren't like that as a rule.

I admit i did judge Nick which was wrong but i'm starting to see Harry as a control freak

To be honest with you i thought she was like that because she in the house and thought she would be different once out

The series is over. LONG over. We aren't seeing enough of these two to come to any deep psychological conclusions, so can we not just leave Harry alone? The OP is nothing but far-fetched speculation.

You have your opinion which i respect Karen and i have mine but the signs are there

I'm glad you finally see it. I remember you coming for my neck because I called her a bunny boiler. I guess I was right. I'm also glad you got out of that bad relationship, no one should be treated like a hostage in their own relationship.

But that just another extreme view Clive. They will work it out, or not. I suspect they're just making the most of their 15 minutes.

Thank you so happy i got out of that relationship it took me a long time to trust again but the signs are there other people will have different opinions but this is a forum

True Vald

I think it's a stretch, given how little evidence we have. I'm sorry you had a bad experience with a girl, and I hope you won't be so unlucky again, but now you're being hyper-sensitive to women who show some emotional intensity and don't lie down and put themselves at a bloke's disposal. Some of us are emotional and dramatic, but that doesn't make us monsters!

Thank you Karen i'm glad i'm out of that relationship and maybe your right about be judging women but i know we don't see a lot only things on Twitter but he lives with her he's never on Twitter unless its about Harry what about he's other friends plus she is always making him look stupid and mocks him to others maybe i'm reading to much into it but that's how it started with me

I totally agree with you.BB has been over for a week now. There is another poster sounding off that Nick should get a job and stop sponging off people.where do people get their information from?

This forum is turning into a mini North Korea, So fms are banned from discussing any HM after the series ends then?

Only opinions but do agree with you about the sponging thing he has he's own money

Anyone who is relying heavily on what someone does or doesn't put on social media for their 'evidence' really is grasping at straws.

OP's argument, in my opinion, consists of a pre-existing disposition to dislike Harry and some sensitivity about his (alleged) mistreatment by a past girlfriend. Plus some speculative bullshit about a possible injury the specifics of which he has absolutely no idea!

It's not much of a case is it?

Sometimes a guy likes being voluntarily controlled, beats me why they would. lol But if it's their choice that is a different. Compared to it being more of a forced trapped nature.
What i'm getting at here is, with Nick it's hard to tell which one of the above options it actually is.

Ok judge Rinder on a serious note i don't hate Harry at all, i think she is a controlling person it was clear on big brother and 4 housemates said the same who lived with her, and my judgement is not clouded because of what happened to me.

Good point it's because Nick ain't got a backbone it's hard to tell.