Originally Posted by Scorpio2:
“I don't know much about bipolar but apart from her trying to seduce Jason and seeing Rhys what is so bad about her portrayal? Jean and Stacey both had it in EE they didn't see dead people but they did react in different ways.”
Well there's quite a lot to say on that subject but the main thing is that it seems to be being played as a bit of fun or some kind of joke, not taken remotely seriously at all. Apparently Cindy wanting to sleep with any man she happens to meet is hilarious for some reason. Bipolar is a very serious mental illness which makes life horrendously difficult for sufferers, there's a lot more to it than having lots of sex. In reality the hyper sexuality can be very dangerous; the person could put themselves in dangerous situations where they're more vulnerable to violence, or could contract an STD or HIV etc as a result.
There's also been absolutely zero mention of the depressive episodes, which make up half of the illness. No attempt whatsoever to convey what any of it really means; that the person will most likely be at great risk of harming themselves in one way or another, the prejudices of other people and what that means socially or in terms of employment prospects/holding onto jobs or anything like that. Then there's the tendency towards massive overspending and getting into debt while manic, which could cause a sufferer to go bankrupt or lose their home.
I also take issue with the way in which Cindy just suddenly decides to go off her meds for no particular reason and then instantly becomes manic, that's completely unrealistic. Of course a person might come off of a bipolar medication for one reason or another, usually horrendous side effects, but if their condition is being managed by the medication and they're stable, as Cindy was made out to be for a while, they don't just suddenly go "actually you know what, this is too easy for me, I think I'll just stop taking it and become really ill again." Even if that were the case, it certainly wouldn't happen instantaneously as it has with Cindy, medication takes a while to get out of your system, and even after it had that wouldn't mean an instant automatic manic episode.
Also on the subject of medication, a lot of medications which work for bipolar and are essential for the sufferer can and do have terrible physical side effects. Some of those side effects can be permanent, even if you stop taking the medicine. I have a friend who has permanent severe rheumatic problems that cause her terrible pain as a direct result of taking lithium. There's been no mention of anything like this with Cindy. I mean obviously there's no reason why she should necessarily have to have physical problems as a result of her condition, but the possibility could have been mentioned at some point when she in hospital, or at a doctor's appointment or something, as it's a fairly major thing to do with the illness.
Even the business of Cindy seeing Rhys seemed to me to be played for laughs, and largely as a source of embarrassment for Holly rather than there being
anything about what it's actually like to have delusions, psychosis etc. Not that I know personally but I have it on good authority that it's utterly terrifying and horrific. Not to mention the indignity of ending up hospitalised and so drugged up because of psychosis that you frequently wet yourself and are too out of it to even notice. (Obviously this doesn't happen to all sufferers, but it can happen.) That picture, the real one, differs greatly from "oh how hilarious, Cindy's impersonating EL James and running around in a wedding dress."
I'm not a fan of Eastenders' portrayal either but it's certainly a
lot better than Hollyoaks'. EE make is clear it's an illness and not some huge joke.