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Old 25-08-2015, 20:49
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Sorry but Shabnam has TWO pregnancies after sleeping with two guys out of wedlock. Gives up her baby, lies to her entire family and the rest of it and then asks Stacey to get non-alcoholic wine for her hens at the hen party!

I'm sorry but I think she's got a cheek acting all holier than thou and of course wearing that headscarf! Tut tut tut tut tut.....
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Old 25-08-2015, 20:53
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It's her house and her hen party, I don't see why it matters that she asked for non alcoholic wine.
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Old 25-08-2015, 20:55
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It's her house and her hen party, I don't see why it matters that she asked for non alcoholic wine.
I agree, it's her choice what she wants at her hen party.
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Old 25-08-2015, 20:58
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Sorry but Shabnam has TWO pregnancies after sleeping with two guys out of wedlock. Gives up her baby, lies to her entire family and the rest of it and then asks Stacey to get non-alcoholic wine for her hens at the hen party!

I'm sorry but I think she's got a cheek acting all holier than thou and of course wearing that headscarf! Tut tut tut tut tut.....
She's only a hypocrite if she judges others for doing that
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Old 25-08-2015, 21:00
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But it was her hen party Shabs should of invited Shirley, now that would of been entertaining.
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Old 25-08-2015, 21:03
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She's also pregnant as is Stacey who is currently emotional and slightly unstable. Not a great idea having booze about really. Shabnam has obviously made mistakes and uses her religion to attempt to repent her sins and make herself feel better about her misgivings. She's not perfect but she's not a bad Muslim either.
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Old 25-08-2015, 21:15
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I agree, it's her choice what she wants at her hen party.
And her choice what she wears too
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Old 25-08-2015, 21:27
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And her choice what she wears too
Agreed - although I did laugh when Stacey told her to put her head thing on - totally in character. I wish Stacey hadn't had the fling with Kush as the friendship between these girls could have been great.
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Old 25-08-2015, 21:29
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And her choice what she wears too
Absolutely
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Old 25-08-2015, 21:35
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Why is it hypocritical She could sleep with an entire football team and still request that there is no alcohol in her House. However, if she refused to associate with someone else because they'd slept with an entire football team when she had then that would be hypocritical
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Old 25-08-2015, 21:40
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Why is it hypocritical She could sleep with an entire football team and still request that there is no alcohol in her House. However, if she refused to associate with someone else because they'd slept with an entire football team when she had then that would be hypocritical
Well put, trevor tiger
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Old 25-08-2015, 21:42
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Why is it hypocritical She could sleep with an entire football team and still request that there is no alcohol in her House. However, if she refused to associate with someone else because they'd slept with an entire football team when she had then that would be hypocritical
Kush drinks like a fish & he's Muslim or is only part because of his mother
Isn't Bonnie Langford Jewish ? wouldn't Carmel had to convert to marry his dad
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Old 25-08-2015, 21:44
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Cheer up Noush, you'll have a coronary!
It's Shabbers' party and she'll cry if she wants to!

Btw did you know an anagram of Shabnam is Bash Man....
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Old 25-08-2015, 21:48
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How is it hypocritical? Whatever mistakes she's made etc it doesn't mean she should be forced to have alcohol if she doesn't want to.
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Old 25-08-2015, 21:54
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Kush drinks like a fish & he's Muslim or is only part because of his mother
Isn't Bonnie Langford Jewish ? wouldn't Carmel had to convert to marry his dad
So many questions I'm not an Imam or Rabbi so not really qualified to answer
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Old 25-08-2015, 21:57
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Shabnam is great
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Old 25-08-2015, 22:10
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Cheer up Noush, you'll have a coronary!
It's Shabbers' party and she'll cry if she wants to!

Btw did you know an anagram of Shabnam is Bash Man....
Okey doke, I'll cheer up lol but I am seriously staggered at the amount of people asking WHY it's hypocrital?!?!!!

For goodness sake; she does practically everything that a muslim shouldn't do then wears a head scarf as if she's so religious. If she didn't wear the headscarf, I'd have no problem with whatever she wanted or didn't want in her house and blimey, yes of course it's "her choice" of what she wears but we are not talking about a pair jeans or some high heels here.....it's a hijab which is linked to Islam and religion and the religious rules of that faith.....and I'm afraid she does nothing that I can see that demonstrates that she follows Islam or its rules and that's why I find it "hypocritical".

It's no better than Dot , for example, telling people not to smoke, Max saying it's wrong to have affairs or Carol to say you shouldn't have kids before you're married!!!!
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Old 25-08-2015, 22:14
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How is it hypocritical? Whatever mistakes she's made etc it doesn't mean she should be forced to have alcohol if she doesn't want to.
No I didn't mean that SHE should drink it! I mean her husband to be is down the local getting pi**ed and she knows it and accepts it yet she won't even allow her own friends to have a drink when, they've had alcohol in the house before plus, it's hardly a very religious or faith abiding house - just look what happened with Masood and Carmel today!!

I am not being a prude, I have no qualms about what goes on in the house and stuff happens like it did with Mas and Carmel but just don't go on like you're so respectful of your religion when you are oh so clearly not! She didn't even marry a guy who embraces her precious faith so what is with the scarf???
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Old 25-08-2015, 22:23
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No I didn't mean that SHE should drink it! I mean her husband to be is down the local getting pi**ed and she knows it and accepts it yet she won't even allow her own friends to have a drink when, they've had alcohol in the house before plus, it's hardly a very religious or faith abiding house - just look what happened with Masood and Carmel today!!

I am not being a prude, I have no qualms about what goes on in the house and stuff happens like it did with Mas and Carmel but just don't go on like you're so respectful of your religion when you are oh so clearly not! She didn't even marry a guy who embraces her precious faith so what is with the scarf???
Ah I see what you mean, that is all a bit bizarre. The alcohol business sounds more like inconsistent writing than anything to do with the character really, but who knows.
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Old 25-08-2015, 22:26
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Ah I see what you mean, that is all a bit bizarre. The alcohol business sounds more like inconsistent writing than anything to do with the character really, but who knows.
Yeah thanks srhgts...youre probably right
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Old 26-08-2015, 01:45
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Didn't she ask for non-alcoholic wine because she didn't want Denise and Carmel to get drunk? She did say to Fatima that she allowed them one alcoholic drink but they kept topping up and was starting to get tipsy.
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Old 26-08-2015, 01:58
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No I didn't mean that SHE should drink it! I mean her husband to be is down the local getting pi**ed and she knows it and accepts it yet she won't even allow her own friends to have a drink when, they've had alcohol in the house before plus, it's hardly a very religious or faith abiding house - just look what happened with Masood and Carmel today!!

I am not being a prude, I have no qualms about what goes on in the house and stuff happens like it did with Mas and Carmel but just don't go on like you're so respectful of your religion when you are oh so clearly not! She didn't even marry a guy who embraces her precious faith so what is with the scarf???
People lapse but that doesn't mean they don't respect their religion though so if she wants to wear a headscarf, so what? She isn't allowed to because she messed up in the past? Seriously? It's her beliefs and it's down to her. Just because she's had children out of wedlock or isn't marrying a devout Muslim doesn't invalidate her own beliefs. I don't really see the big deal...
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Old 26-08-2015, 02:18
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We know Shabnam dislikes being around alcohol and doesn't want her hen party to be fuelled by it, so it's consistent with her character and her religion. She can't really stop Kush going to the pub and getting pissed. She knows he won't listen. It's a personal choice at the end of the day.

You'd have thought though for a practicing muslim girl like Shabnam that Kush's "un-Muslim" lifestyle would be a deal breaker for her. But apparently not.
The Masoods have never been written consistently to be honest. One moment they're written as strict muslims, next minute they're tolerant muslims. Masood is the worst hypocrite in that family.
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Old 26-08-2015, 02:26
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She told Stacey to come back with non-alcoholic wine because she didn't want Carmel and Denise to get anymore drunk as they were both knocking the wine back.
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Old 26-08-2015, 02:52
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She lapsed but now stays close to her beliefs
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