Originally Posted by purplesky:
“Stereotypes don't always reflect reality. Many Americans are quiet and softly spoken.
The people on BB are chosen for their willingness to fit into a cliche, but let us be clear that they do not represent all of America - i.e not all Americans are loud and obnoxious, just as not all English people are quiet and reserved...etc etc etc.”
Entire regional subcultures in the US are that way (softspoken I mean). I mean there are also individuals in any given family or area that are, but it's worth noting that once more there's the troubling aspect that somehow people elsewhere regard one of the biggest most populous and certainly the single most diverse nation on Earth as somehow something they can encapsulate with one set of ideas.
It's all the more shocking that it's the British doing this. A land where people a single town over often have vastly different speech, habits and lifestyles. And yet it's somehow mystifying to them that a country that is literally 42 times their land area and around 5 times the population has actual diversity to at least match (and in reality, vastly exceed) theirs. It's just inevitable with that many people, that much land, and that many immigrants from that many different places.
I recommend Stephen Fry's series with his road trip to all 50 states. It's by necessity a very shallow look, and does focus more on the physical differences between the states rather than the deeper cultural ones, but even as a toe in the water it gives a rough place to start with the realisation that the US is basically around 100 different countries (probably at least 2 per state) rather than one country.