Originally Posted by TillyT:
“My son fainted and had a fit once, I thought he was faking it because it didn't look how I expected it to look, and it was all so sudden and surreal. Then I came to my senses and realised it was real and I shouldn't judge based on what I THINK I know, and should have acted to help him sooner.
The medic was absolutely useless in this instance, and showing a 60 year old woman in distress, even when she was worried about her hand, is beyond disgusting. Laughing about it, is equally disgusting. I hope no one ever laughs at anyone's mother or grandmother when they are in distress, just because it might look odd.”
I don't know about that kind of fit, but when someone has the type my relative does I've been told all I can/should do is phone for an ambulance (which they did) and make sure their airways are clear (if you can). Janice appeared to do this by laying on the floor.
I was shocked at the time how little he did apart from put on gloves and reassure her, but thinking about it if they didn't have the right meds on hand that's perhaps all they could do, and they are by both nature and training able to stay calm.
I don't think it was bad to show it with her permission if it was to educate people, but they didn't at all, and just showed it and then skipped on
You are so right - my relative's a repeated stroke sufferer and people are just so ignorant about his speech problems and so lacking in understanding so often it can be distressing for us all. Even with his obvious mobility problems people often have little patience or are helpful, to the point where when people are it's actually quite a surprise. He had a fall in the street once when by himself for a few minutes and lots of people just walked on by before a shopkeeper eventually came to his aid