Ohh wow, talk about my personal life and family situation all you like but don't you dare tell me to put my microphone down lmfao

a) if someone hauls insults at you [which she did] it's OK to get annoyed, so that fact he was annoyed [if he was] is not bottling it.
b) if somone becomes annoyed but stays cool, calm and doesn't haul insults back, this too does not mean you're bottling it.

I saw him winning on a very uneven knock out.

Spot on.


Lol.
No she didn't.

Totally dis agree.

I think he acted correctly.
He isn't 10 years old..and neither is farrah although she acts like it.

He walked away from the situation.
That takes a bigger person to do that.

I agree with this.

I think he dealt with her very well and like he said, he did take away some of her power.

The reason that Farrah can sleep soundly after drama and Bobby can't is because she is engineering a lot of this drama for her own benefit (airtime, attention, an outlet for her aggression). Clearly she's in her element when she's causing drama, whilst the UK housemates are not.

Bobby had to talk it through with Natasha because he is probably baffled, like most of the HMs are, by the US women in there and their level of aggression. Farrah wasn't even involved in the original disagreement, she wedged herself in there and did all she could to escalate it, even throwing out personal bait for Bobby to rise to.

I'd have to talk it through with a fellow sane person afterwards if I'd been in his position

I think he looked ridiculous .
They both lost it but he was trying to act cool as his face went through every shade of red on the Dulux chart .Meanwhile she stayed just her normal shouty self and riled him up good and proper . His blood pressure rocketed.
But what made me laugh was him boasting in the DR of how he would handle her and pick his battle (what a twonk) , then him preening himself in the garden afterwards , fluffing out his big macho feathers and saying how he didn't let her get the better of him , when in reality she totally zapped him .
The wife/GF comment was a proper haymaker that floored him .

Farah came out of that exchange looking like the bitch she is.

I always think that when you start to swear, which she does, you've lost the argument. Hurling names tops it off. Then there's the lalalalala ... very mature.

What he really should have done is not spoken at all, rolled over, shut his eyes and completely ignored her. That's what you do with children having a tantrum. You don't feed it.

I agree muggins but it is very hard to ignore it sometimes, especially when you have heard it over and over again. I thought he did well.

Did you not hear Marcus say something like 3.30am and most of the housemate are asleep (including Farrah, well away to the Land of Nod)? Who was in the garden churning away over the night's events, asking people if he did 'well', looking for validation? Bobby, that's who!

Just read this after my last post. I can see it your way too, but Bobby was rattled in my opinion. He just didn't expect to drop the 'showbiz' persona. Reminds me of the last person to hide behind the showbiz of it all, Simon. He couldn't keep it up either and melted down before our viewing eyes.

Bobby used his inner shaman to absorb the power of his foe. As a consequence he morphed into the beetroot-faced, startled-eyed look of a rattled comedian.

The late night smoking break was needed to safely vent the excess energy into the gazebo area. Understandably, he didn't want to wake up half Farrah / half Davro in the morning.

Lmao I was just about to mention this. I couldn't help but giggle as he went from a dull pink to the colour of Elmo

As a Farrah fan imo they were both as bad as each other.

I think he was a paragon of virtue and restraint with that horrenendous woman.

What the hell is wrong with her. Her behaviour is not acceptable in any way.

She's just plain nasty.

Bobby turng red and having real, actual, genuine, feelings and emotions when he is insulted, does not mean he 'lost' the argument.
Even with all that, which no one denies, he didnt lose it, he kept calm and defused his anger later, is peace, with someone he trusted.
Thats the proper adult and mature way of dealing with the spite that come out of Farrah mouth.

Yes he was upset, so what? But was by far the better person.

BY FAR!

I could'nt agree more. Very well said Aimeex

This forum needs a 'like' button lol

Sometimes it takes a bigger person to just walk away from the situation.

It is difficult for some men to respond when a woman comes at them like that. Farrah is damaged goods and I hoped some housemate would have defended him. I can see Natasha and Gail having a confrontation with Farrah and Jenna and I bet the latter back down.

And then he can out with some crap along the lines of coming out. Ether Han her or not losing his temper.

Bobby was upset,who would'int be, he did nothing wrong,he definitely came out the better person,it takes the better person every time not to shout and curse back like Farrah did,he has gone right up in my estimation,well done Bobby

I agree.
Nothing so ugly as a women who bitches and picks fights with everyone.
It aint big and it certainly aint clever.