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A post about Gail Porter
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wotnot
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by Damon_Plembury:
“Farrah is miserable. Jenna and Austin and Janice are miserable and unhappy in the house.

Gail isn't fragile. She's dealing with it. Its the viewers that can't deal with her”

Earlier you were stating about how people shouldn't kick her while she was down, shouldn't say horrible things about her etc should be supportive and be a crutch for her and now she isn't fragile, if that's the case ...

Actually I am seeing something here...
tmj
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by Damon_Plembury:
“Ima arguing against intolerance and unreasonable language against her

Your seriously telling me that she deserves all of the venom being thrown at her for being a bit emotional?

Its completely bonkers

You may not agree with me about her but you could surely see my point”

You keep mentioning all this venom being thrown against her. Disliking and claiming a housemate is boring and should leave, or not up to BB, is not throwing venom. They're standard critiques used on many other previous HMs
Damon_Plembury
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by tmj:
“You keep mentioning all this venom being thrown against her. Disliking and claiming a housemate is boring and should leave, or not up to BB, is not throwing venom. They're standard critiques used on many other previous HMs”

James is boring and should leave
Repentance
08-09-2015
So brave
Nerd
08-09-2015
She's passive aggressive. She uses cleaning and tears to manipulate people. Give me a good honest tongue lashing from Farrah over a cry baby any day.
Damon_Plembury
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by wotnot:
“Earlier you were stating about how people shouldn't kick her while she was down, shouldn't say horrible things about her etc should be supportive and be a crutch for her and now she isn't fragile, if that's the case ...

Actually I am seeing something here... ”

Twisting my words to suit your argument now

I said that actively attempting to humiliate and degrade a person with mental health issues isn't on.

However Gail is strong and has got through life. That doesn't mean she can handle being targeted so heavily for criticism especially when she's done nothing to warrant it
Damon_Plembury
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by Nerd:
“She's passive aggressive. She uses cleaning and tears to manipulate people. Give me a good honest tongue lashing from Farrah over a cry baby any day.”

You're just ignore the fact she has OCD

Are you that cynical and determined that anyone who shows an ounce of humility and emotional vulnerability is trying to pull the wool over your eyes?

Have we become so cynical?
yogacats
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by Damon_Plembury:
“Gail Porter is a strong woman

Resilient and a fighter.

Gail has BiPolar, Depression, Insomnia, OCD, All massive issues to take into a house like that.

She is in the house with provocative, aggressive, loud people.

The very nature of the game is dealing with rejection. Something any normal person struggles with let alone someone who has been through a tough time.

Ive seen Gail be called Pointless?

The show is about looking at people from all walks of life and how they deal with each other and the game.

Gail has become emotional and often irritable.

This hasn't been (as some have said) for attention, or for pity

Its an incredibly unusual environment for anyone. For someone with BiPolar it must be nigh on overwhelming.

'She shouldn't be in there then'

Why?

Are people with mental health issues not allowed to do the things you do? Is that Prejudiced?

Meek, emotional, invested, trusting, irritable

All words id use to describe Gail, none of which are in anyway worthy of some of the vitriol I've seen thrown at her.

Whilst the Good looking men in the house sail through (as they sail through life) not doing much, flatlining, getting by on the female viewership fancying them.

Gail is showing you raw, true emotion. The real her

She's not perfect

She's just deeply deeply human. And if we can't deal with that then its probably a reflection of us as a society.

This may be a dramatic post, but mental health and the stigma surrounding it is something I'm deeply passionate about.

Humiliating and degrading someone who has chosen to share their entire personality with you, no matter how flawed or sensitive is in my opinion truly disgusting

She had been asked to participate in Big Brother and offered a hefty sum of money to do so.

Like any jobbing person, when someone offers you a job, you would be a fool to turn it down.

She had obviously seen the show before, knew how it works etc.

But signing up for it doesn't make her 'fair game' as I've heard people say. This isn't a witch hunt.

Gail doesn't have to win, thats not my point. But supporting her through this and not turning on her for 'crying a little bit too much' (a pathetic excuse to dislike someone IMO)
is something we should be thinking about

I would appreciate if people didn't try to derail this thread by picking up on Grammar mistakes etc.

Focus on the issues”


Brilliant post with lots of great points. Thank you very much Damon!
rolergirl
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by Damon_Plembury:
“I haven't lied because my comments weren't directed at you personally they were directed at the viewership”

they WERE directed to ME,, in your last thread you quoted me, and said "you dislike her because of her mental health issues".....so dont try and wriggle out of it now, i was very insulted, and if that is the only way you can win an argument is by twisting what people have said, putting words in their mouth then lying then no wonder no one is agreeig with you and your threads are being shut down!!!
this_THAT
08-09-2015
if anyone actually believes she crying to manipulate people

that's sad.

by all means don't like her but that's just not true.
Damon_Plembury
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by rolergirl:
“they WERE directed to ME,, in your last thread you quoted me, and said "you dislike her because of her mental health issues".....so dont try and wriggle out of it now, i was very insulted, and if that is the only way you can win an argument is by twisting what people have said, putting words in their mouth then lying then no wonder no one is agreeig with you and your threads are being shut down!!!”

You misinterpreted my intention I'm sorry if you were so 'insulted'

I was meaning the viewership

Can we move on now
Damon_Plembury
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by this_THAT:
“if anyone actually believes she crying to manipulate people

that's sad.

by all means don't like her but that's just not true.”

sense at last. Thank you for being you
flowerpowa
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by Damon_Plembury:
“Farrah is miserable. Jenna and Austin and Janice are miserable and unhappy in the house.

Gail isn't fragile. She's dealing with it. Its the viewers that can't deal with her”

She is very uncomfortable to watch, she is fragile and it shows, it must upset her family. I feel very sorry for her and hope that she is O.K when she comes out of the house.
Damon_Plembury
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by flowerpowa:
“She is very uncomfortable to watch, she is fragile and it shows, it must upset her family. I feel very sorry for her and hope that she is O.K when she comes out of the house.”

But just because its uncomfortable to watch doesn't mean we should shy away from it.

Thats life, life is uncomfortable.

All the screaming and arguing makes me uncomfortable, as does all the romances.

But i don't demand that they be taken from my sight. I don't turn my back or avert my eyes

When did life become so offensive to people.
tmj
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by Damon_Plembury:
“But just because its uncomfortable to watch doesn't mean we should shy away from it.

Thats life, life is uncomfortable.

All the screaming and arguing makes me uncomfortable, as does all the romances.

But i don't demand that they be taken from my sight. I don't turn my back or avert my eyes

When did life become so offensive to people.”

You mean like Gail is demanding Chloe and Stevi do?
Nerd
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by Damon_Plembury:
“You're just ignore the fact she has OCD

Are you that cynical and determined that anyone who shows an ounce of humility and emotional vulnerability is trying to pull the wool over your eyes?

Have we become so cynical?”

If she has OCD she can clean as much as she likes, just don't use it to make other people feel bad. Nobody asked her to clean; she chose to. She shouldn't inflict her OCD on other people, nor her emotional fragility for that matter - it's not their problem.
Damon_Plembury
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by tmj:
“You mean like Gail is demanding Chloe and Stevi do?”

Thats Gails Problem not mine
honeythewitch
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by Damon_Plembury:
“Gail doesn't engage? So all this emotion isn't engaging with the house?

Ill tell you who isn't engaging

James Hill

Flatlining to the extreme but loved by the viewers because he's fit innit”

Are you saying James is fit and Gail is a moose?
tmj
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by Damon_Plembury:
“Thats Gails Problem not mine”

And people disliking Gail on CBB is her problem too, not yours.

Damon_Plembury
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by tmj:
“And people disliking Gail on CBB is her problem too, not yours.

”

You're just going around incircles. You aren't going to derail the fact that the comments online about Gail are uncalled for and the attitudes towards her are beyond unreasonable.

So you may try and trip me up or be smart all you like

The only reason i can assume you're doing this is because you can see i have a point
Damon_Plembury
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by honeythewitch:
“Are you saying James is fit and Gail is a moose? ”

Gail is beautiful. Where did you draw that conclusion
wotnot
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by Damon_Plembury:
“Twisting my words to suit your argument now

I said that actively attempting to humiliate and degrade a person with mental health issues isn't on.

However Gail is strong and has got through life. That doesn't mean she can handle being targeted so heavily for criticism especially when she's done nothing to warrant it”

Direct quotes from you -
Quote:
“The very nature of the game is dealing with rejection. Something any normal person struggles with let alone someone who has been through a tough time.
Its an incredibly unusual environment for anyone. For someone with BiPolar it must be nigh on overwhelming.
Im asking people to support her as in be a crutch, don't hinder her, don't kick her when she's down. Be decent as a human.
Gail isn't fragile. She's dealing with it. Its the viewers that can't deal with her”

No one is twisting your words, I am just challenging them. I am not asking you to stop supporting Gail but I do think that your posts show intolerance against the views of others and you change the nature of your argument to try to alter peoples perception.

So what is it, is Gail a vulnerable person who we aren't allowed to judge based on her time in the house because we should judge her on her past and her condition and her issues be a crutch for her?

Or is she a strong woman who has been through so much and doesn't need our pity?

The two contradict one another.

I dislike her, simple as that. She's done nothing to entertain me and she hasn't come across as a particularly nice person. Nothing to do with any issues she may have
tmj
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by Damon_Plembury:
“You're just going around incircles. You aren't going to derail the fact that the comments online about Gail are uncalled for and the attitudes towards her are beyond unreasonable.

So you may try and trip me up or be smart all you like

The only reason i can assume you're doing this is because you can see i have a point”

No, I don't think you have a point. In fact, I think you've contradicted yourself throughout the thread.
Damon_Plembury
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by wotnot:
“Direct quotes from you -


No one is twisting your words, I am just challenging them. I am not asking you to stop supporting Gail but I do think that your posts show intolerance against the views of others and you change the nature of your argument to try to alter peoples perception.

So what is it, is Gail a vulnerable person who we aren't allowed to judge based on her time in the house because we should judge her on her past and her condition and her issues be a crutch for her?

Or is she a strong woman who has been through so much and doesn't need our pity?

The two contradict one another.

I dislike her, simple as that. She's done nothing to entertain me and she hasn't come across as a particularly nice person. Nothing to do with any issues she may have ”

What has Gail done that so bad in the house for you to judge her so harshly?

She's cried a lot. So what? Its not a bad trait.

My two points don't contradict each other at all

You are refusing to acknowledge that anyone who comes out of a mental breakdown deserves respect in the very least.

She's strong for having beat it

She does however still have many self loathing issues that really shouldn't be exasperated by intolerant people who are determined to kick her while she's down
SegaGamer
08-09-2015
Originally Posted by Damon_Plembury:
“Simply getting the strength to go in that house should be commended. She's battled her way back”

Oh please, no strength was needed. She took one look at the money offered and that was enough to convince her to go in. It's got nothing to do with battling back. The majority of anybody's Big Brother experience is about sitting on your ass and having a cup of tea, it's easy money that anybody would take, including those with mental health problems.
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