Originally Posted by Sasparella:
“LOL I find her ranting about it hilarious, does she not see that he's saying to her exactly what she says to others ?”
Exactly. Except none of the words he uses need stars to blank them out!
Originally Posted by annai:
“What Bobby said to Farrah is just as bad, if not worse, than anything she has said to the other housemates so I'm not sure how that makes him any better than her. Plus there's just something about an older man speaking to a 24 year old girl like that, that doesn't sit right with me.”
Why do people do that, call a 24-year-old woman a girl, yet a 24-year-old male would be a man? She's a grown woman, a mother even.
Some of the vitriol that comes out of her mouth is incredible, it's embarrassing - I mean, who gives a woman the finger and then doesn't see how antagonistic that is (to Natasha the other night). It's juvenile.
She has no self-awareness at all, doesn't hear how she sounds, how bitter she comes across all the time. It's sad, but it's also nasty. Of course, she had a right to reply to Bobby's criticism, but she could have chosen to either take it on the chin or to reply with something coherent, argue her point of view, but instead she chose name-calling.
Bobby had a chance to voice his opinion, he did. Do you honestly think she'd have sat down with him for a conversation? You may not agree with him but he gave it - without swearing too, just as she's chosen to give hers many times over the last 2 weeks - except hers entail a lot of name-calling, swearing and very loud shouting. Before anybody says he called her ugly, he called her character ugly, her nature - not her; her he calls beautiful.