well, if people do post anecdotes, good or bad , most people do let that influence them on the kind of person they are, and i couldnt have commented on it in the first place unless you posted the actual story, other people also commented, calling him a creep and no one replied back to them saying what they have to me...and i dont get why you would post as story you swear is true but then when i believe it you say we should not believe as it may not be true and then say it is true but we shouldnt believe stories on here like it, so is it true or not and why bother posting it then if no one is meant to believe it or take anything from it?,....

I wasn't saying you shouldn't believe it, I was trying to explain why I agree with Penny's stance, ie judging on what we see in the house. I probably worded it badly, sorry!

I guess it's like chatting or passing the time of day with fellow posters.

I post about who I like and who I don't like - I'm not out to change anyone's mind - it really isn't that important to me. The best part of BB is discussing on a forum - the good, the bad and the ugly.

youre right, why the hell am i getting my knickers in atwist over bobby bleeding davro?...im sorry.