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Old 17-09-2015, 22:57
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It is not in the least bit predatory. James has always said that if he had ever felt that Austin was doing anything out of line in any way, shape or form he would immediately let him know. James chooses to play about with Austin, they play fight and wrestle, go in the bath together and choose to share a bed together. It is completely consensual on both sides and at any point that James felt uncomfortable with that, then he would stop doing those things.
Exactly. Thank you. Going by some, you'd think that James was some poor soul being led astray. James knows what he's doing.
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Old 17-09-2015, 23:20
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Austin has been a more subtle Tila Tequila with James.

James knows it though, he's sad enough to enjoy the attention.
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Old 18-09-2015, 00:08
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Austin has a crush on James, I'd agree with that. And they muck about in a way BOTH of them are comfortable with. How that makes Austin a predator is beyond me. I don't particularly like Austin, but I feel it's very unfair to label him like that.
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Old 18-09-2015, 00:30
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I think Austin fancies him and if given encouragement from James he could be persuaded to stray.
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Old 18-09-2015, 03:13
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what about that conversation the other night where James repeatedly told Austin that he is straight, I think James knows Austin has a crush on him but doesn't know how to handle it without looking bad
Good point, and I'll add that James looks more than comfortable to be around Austin, stripped off, bathing, showering, strutting shirtless and being what I would describe as "brotherly" with him, because he is confident of his own straight sexuality. Both of them know the score and where the line is between them, and although they have been right up and on the line at times, especially Austin, it has never been crossed and I don't expect it to be either. They clearly both respect each other.
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Old 18-09-2015, 05:23
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Not implying gay men can't help themselves it's about Austin and his rather obvious crush on James
Yes, you are and are implying that he is predatory is deeply offensive

You don't have to go far with the straight community to uncover homophobic language
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Old 18-09-2015, 06:10
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Yes, you are and are implying that he is predatory is deeply offensive

You don't have to go far with the straight community to uncover homophobic language
Oh go away with your homophobic accusations that is deeply offensive, getting into bed naked with a guy and asking him to rub cream on you isn't platonic and brotherly and tonight he was telling James he knows him better than all his mates that makes him a "little" predatory like in the title he's a married man he's got a massive crush on James and James is probably encouraging him with his hand kissing etc but at the end of the day it's Austin who's the married guy here
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Old 18-09-2015, 06:37
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Oh go away with your homophobic accusations that is deeply offensive, getting into bed naked with a guy and asking him to rub cream on you isn't platonic and brotherly and tonight he was telling James he knows him better than all his mates that makes him a "little" predatory like in the title he's a married man he's got a massive crush on James and James is probably encouraging him with his hand kissing etc but at the end of the day it's Austin who's the married guy here
The two things have nothing to do with each other. If you think that James and Austin are behaving in a disrespectful way because Austin is married, then that is one thing. I completely disagree as Austin's husband seems fine with their friendship.

However 'predatory' suggests something completely different and is a very strong comment to make. It essentially accuses Austin of making James do things he doesn't want to do. This is something that James has vehemently denied.
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Old 18-09-2015, 06:51
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How is saying Austin comes across as predatory, homophobic. I fail to see why.
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Old 18-09-2015, 07:29
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I do t think he's predatory just needy
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Old 18-09-2015, 07:31
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How is saying Austin comes across as predatory, homophobic. I fail to see why.
Of course predatory is homophobic

Predatory = preying on people
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Old 18-09-2015, 07:44
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Oh go away with your homophobic accusations that is deeply offensive, getting into bed naked with a guy and asking him to rub cream on you isn't platonic and brotherly and tonight he was telling James he knows him better than all his mates that makes him a "little" predatory like in the title he's a married man he's got a massive crush on James and James is probably encouraging him with his hand kissing etc but at the end of the day it's Austin who's the married guy here
I'll be the judge whether something is homophobic or not

What the hell do you know about prejudice? Do you have some straight git hurl abuse at you when you walk down the street or not? No? Thought not?

Also they are very comfortable with each other. Comfortable where they know where the barriers are Austin Is gay, James is straight

You know its because of gossipy sanctemonius people like yourself that homophobia spreads. That causes damage. But what is that to a little straight gossip such as yourself

Eh?
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Old 18-09-2015, 07:54
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[quote=broadshoulder;79681202]Of course predatory is homophobic

Predatory = preying on people[/Q

I do know what predatory means. Yes I believe he is acting in a predatory way but he just happens to be gay. He could equally have been straight and behaving the same way towards a woman. Predatory is predatory and saying Austin is, is not homophobic
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Old 18-09-2015, 08:00
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It's very obvious that Austin is lusting after James....must be really uncomfortable viewing for his husband.
Absolutely. Very unfair on Austin's husband.
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Old 18-09-2015, 08:01
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[quote=patricia50;79681332]
Of course predatory is homophobic

Predatory = preying on people[/Q

I do know what predatory means. Yes I believe he is acting in a predatory way but he just happens to be gay. He could equally have been straight and behaving the same way towards a woman. Predatory is predatory and saying Austin is, is not homophobic
Yes, it is. Its very homophonic

Are you gay?
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Old 18-09-2015, 08:02
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Absolutely. Very unfair on Austin's husband.
Since when do you care for Austins husband?
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Old 18-09-2015, 08:03
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I'm not. A few days ago the conversation was that Austin shouldn't be sleeping in the same bed as James because he's married, implication that gay men can't help themselves. Earlier the towel-removing incident, standard male horse play, was deemed to be dark because Austin's gay.

I get the feeling some people here are amazed Austin hasn't resorted to what they presumably think all gay men do and violently bum anything with a penis that moves.

You see Austin sneezing? Sooo predatory. Gays are like that, you know. But that's not homophobic....
I'm married. If I was in the house I wouldn't be sleeping in a bed with a woman because it would be disrespectful to my wife.
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Old 18-09-2015, 08:08
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Yes, you are and are implying that he is predatory is deeply offensive

You don't have to go far with the straight community to uncover homophobic language
"the straight community"
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Old 18-09-2015, 08:09
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Of course predatory is homophobic

Predatory = preying on people
The only person linking predatory behaviour and homosexuality is you.
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Old 18-09-2015, 08:10
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I'm married. If I was in the house I wouldn't be sleeping in a bed with a woman because it would be disrespectful to my wife.
I will ask you again "since when did you care about Austins husband"
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Old 18-09-2015, 08:10
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I'll be the judge whether something is homophobic or not

What the hell do you know about prejudice? Do you have some straight git hurl abuse at you when you walk down the street or not? No? Thought not?

Also they are very comfortable with each other. Comfortable where they know where the barriers are Austin Is gay, James is straight

You know its because of gossipy sanctemonius people like yourself that homophobia spreads. That causes damage. But what is that to a little straight gossip such as yourself

Eh?
No. I will be the judge.
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Old 18-09-2015, 08:11
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The only person linking predatory behaviour and homosexuality is you.
And your the one who started this ghastly thread
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Old 18-09-2015, 08:12
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Yes, it is. Its very homophonic

Are you gay?
I hope you do not yet an answer to this. Other peoples' sexuality is none of your business.
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Old 18-09-2015, 08:12
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Since when do you care for Austins husband?
I don't understand your question.
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Old 18-09-2015, 08:12
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No. I will be the judge.
And how will you do that from your straight lifestyle?
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