Originally Posted by bbnutnut:
“I would agree with all of the above except to say (as I've mentioned on a couple of threads now) that Austin was an aggressive, deceitful person on The A List, an American reality programme back in 2011. That was two years before he lost his brother and long before his mother was imprisoned for theft.”
“I would agree with all of the above except to say (as I've mentioned on a couple of threads now) that Austin was an aggressive, deceitful person on The A List, an American reality programme back in 2011. That was two years before he lost his brother and long before his mother was imprisoned for theft.”
I didn't know who Austin was before this show and yes his choice of words has been pretty harsh especially towards Janice. As I said earlier, I do think he is projecting his anger and frustrations on to Janice because there is a connection there. I am not justifying it, just trying to understand why he aims everything in her direction.
The show you refer to may well have been before losing his brother and his mother's imprisonment, but he also said how he envied his husbands strong loving family so I think his issues stem from the environment he was raised in. Losing his brother and then his mum going to prison have compounded his issues and the BB house will definitely bring that to the surface.
Originally Posted by Scarlet O'Hara:
“Speaking for myself, I did try to understand Farrah and quite liked her by the end.
But I think a reason why some people didn't empathise is simply because she didn't break down like Austin did and bare her soul. Many people feel bad seeing others in pain and thats a lovely aspect of humanity IMO. When did Farrah show us her pain? She showed us rage, sure, but youd have to dig reeeeally deep to see the pain under there. If Austin had only showed us rage last night, I guarantee he'd be getting shorter shrift.
She was, for the most part, the opposite of vulnerable. After conflict she might apologise but she never let us into her inner world, she never expressed sorrow or remorse, and apart from one admission about seeing a shrink, she didn't give viewers a whole lot of info with which they could form a rounded picture.
I realise this doesn't fit a nice binary argument that FMs are hypocrites though.”
“Speaking for myself, I did try to understand Farrah and quite liked her by the end.
But I think a reason why some people didn't empathise is simply because she didn't break down like Austin did and bare her soul. Many people feel bad seeing others in pain and thats a lovely aspect of humanity IMO. When did Farrah show us her pain? She showed us rage, sure, but youd have to dig reeeeally deep to see the pain under there. If Austin had only showed us rage last night, I guarantee he'd be getting shorter shrift.
She was, for the most part, the opposite of vulnerable. After conflict she might apologise but she never let us into her inner world, she never expressed sorrow or remorse, and apart from one admission about seeing a shrink, she didn't give viewers a whole lot of info with which they could form a rounded picture.
I realise this doesn't fit a nice binary argument that FMs are hypocrites though.”
I think you're right about Farrah and people did try to push her into talking about what has happened for her to create the steely exterior. I actually admire the fact that she didn't break down and tell all, it is her business and something to dscuss in private.
Having said that, had she succumbed to the constant badgering from certain hms then her treatment in there may well have been better. I also think whilst she may have a vicious mouth on her, she was constantly getting (verbally) attacked from day one and I did feel sorry for her at times.
Austin again has been vicious too, and c**t being the swear word I detest the most but I did feel his tears were genuine in the DR. I was also surprised that Bobby was first to comfort him whilst his best friend in the house just sat back showing no concern at all. James was probably thinking, "wtf, stop crying you might stay now and ruin all my hard work,"
... just a thought.




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I was at a funeral yesterday so not in the best mood.