Originally Posted by patricia50:
“Manners are not an outdated crock of shite but this eighties attitude is.
It is nothing to do with "defenceless, ickle? women it's to do with common courtesy. Cursing at a woman just shows someone up for the ill mannered fool they are.”
That is the problem right there.
If you said "Cursing at a
person just shows someone up for the ill mannered fool they are."
I would agree with you. But why bring the gender into it unless you are applying gender differentials on behaviour. Which is the very definition of sexism.
If Austin was a rude git, which he was, then the gender of the person he spoke to isn't relevant unless you think it's 1895.