Originally Posted by
An Thropologist:
“That gives me the heebie geebies (Sp?
) It feels too much like tempting fate for my liking. The same reason I would never make up something about a loved one as an excuse or to avoid something. I mean like saying I can't attend a function because XXX is ill or such like. Again tempting fate.”
I think the same too and your word should be enough.
Originally Posted by Penelope_Pitst1:
“The minute i hear that phase i instantly disbelieve the person. To me its a big indicator the person is not telling the truth. Overcompensation for a lie is how i see it.”
Me too, the same as when someone is trying to convince you to do/believe something and they finish with "Trust me" ... clanging of alarm bells straight away.
Originally Posted by rolergirl:
“i remember my ex husband swearing on his babies lives about something, turned out he was lying.”
Sadly, my ex did the same and he too was lying. As I said above, your word should be enough and I tend not to believe those that use those terms to convince you they are honest, as it is usually the opposite.