Originally Posted by emptybox:
“It depends what you mean by "instigated".
Certainly if Ash hadn't thrown her drink, then it's very unlikely that anything else would have been thrown, and the 'fracas' wouldn't likely have got physical.
But the word instigated suggests that she foresaw that things would escalate in the way they did, and I don't think she did. I think she was horrified by what happened.
I think Ash was silly and unprofessional to throw her drink, and if she's not invited back onto BOTS then she's only herself to blame.
However I do think her comments about Farrah on the show were spot on and perfectly in keeping with the combative spirit of BOTS.
And certainly didn't amount to "goading" or any of the other silly words that have been used by some on here.
If she'd kept it to verbal sparring with Farrah she'd have been fine IMO.”
“It depends what you mean by "instigated".
Certainly if Ash hadn't thrown her drink, then it's very unlikely that anything else would have been thrown, and the 'fracas' wouldn't likely have got physical.
But the word instigated suggests that she foresaw that things would escalate in the way they did, and I don't think she did. I think she was horrified by what happened.
I think Ash was silly and unprofessional to throw her drink, and if she's not invited back onto BOTS then she's only herself to blame.
However I do think her comments about Farrah on the show were spot on and perfectly in keeping with the combative spirit of BOTS.
And certainly didn't amount to "goading" or any of the other silly words that have been used by some on here.
If she'd kept it to verbal sparring with Farrah she'd have been fine IMO.”
She had planned beforehand that she was going to throw her drink at Farrah. Do you suppose that she expected Farrah to smile graciously and thank her? She obviously knew there was going to be an unpleasant reaction. No one had any way of knowing how Farrah would react.
Why is it still necessary to make excuses for her part in it all.








