Originally Posted by Justastray:
“I apologise if this is cutting across the theme of the current comments on this show, but as someone who has recently had a of time on his hands (through being off work ill) and as someone who decided to spend some of it by watched a lot of TV repeats (quite unlike me, as it happens), I thought I'd offer two or three questions on this programme.
I apologise if any of these comments have been made before elsewhere (I'm sure they have, but couldn't find them mentioned in any other posts), but why is it that:
1. Whenever we have a gay male couple on the show they seem unable to resist either taking the other contestants to a gay showbar, or having one of them burst into a room in some sort of gay drag? This, to me, does a pretty bad disservice to the gay community in general as it makes it look like they're so obsessed with their campness that they can't resist thrusting it in the face of everyone else, whether the 'everyone else' is either interested or not. I can't imagine the other (straight) contestants being so obsessed with letting gay people know they're straight, and I think it would be very interesting to ponder if the gay contestants would feel the need to act like this if the situation ever arose that all the contestants in a given who were gay.
2. Why is it that after so many series of this programme being screened, it seems that the contestants haven't yet cottoned on to the fact that absolutely every other contestant will go through the now very tedious and hackneyed practice of running their fingers along the tops of wardrobes, paintings and anything else with a flat surface, and why is it that they don't make sure they won't be caught out on this? The same with 'hairs in beds' and anything that could be described as some sort of stain in toilet pans or on the seat.
3. Why is it that the vast majority of the female contestants shriek so loudly and in such a high pitched, affected manner when the other contestants arrive on their doorsteps?
Any thoughts on any of these points, anyone?”
1. Don't really know but it does seem to be a theme that such contestants' sexuality is made a thing of and they seem to need to flaunt it and show off. Where are the more discrete ones? I'd imagine that the production team encourages it, especially the choice of activities but it does seem a bit OTT. It's not just FIAB, it's other shows too but having said that, the current series hasn't seen quite so much of it. Fewer gay participants, perhaps?
2. Mad, isn't it? You'd think that their main reason for doing the show would be to showcase their businesses. Winning isn't be the all and end all, yet so many quickly descend into spitefulness, jealously and rudeness. The real winners are surely those that can maintain some dignity. Again, I daresay that the production team encourages some of it in order to generate some conflict but at the end of the day if you don't do or say something, they can't use it against you! Seems that some people get a bit of criticism and the red mist comes down. From what we've been able to work out before, it seems that a proportion of the contestants are approached by the production company direct, so it may be that they don't watch the show and didn't know what they were letting themselves in for, or how to play it. You'd think they'd do some prior research, though, it's hardly difficult to get hold of some old episodes.
3. Undoubtedly that's what the production team want. Weird really!