Originally Posted by Gameshow Host:
“Thanks for the few suggestions. You have basically confirmed what I thought, that there is not much around to my tastes at the moment.
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It seems a lot of people particularly disagree with me about Little Mix being dark, sleazy and evil. Well what can I say? You're entitled to your opinion, but it would seem to me that a lot of people can't see the plain difference between good and evil. Little Mix act like villains, snarling and gritting their teeth. I would say that one would have to be quite naive not to know that the directors tell them to act that way. Do nice girls act that way? The Spice Girls were never anything like that, they were relatively sweet.”
If you really think this, it reflects much more on your own views than it does on LM or The Spice Girls.
Originally Posted by Gameshow Host:
“Sure, I don't disagree. I'm not saying I can't enjoy music sung by evil people, I can, I just don't want evil in the music itself, that's all. The tone of the act is not determined by the artist but by the producers and directors. It has always been entirely in their hands. Little Mix could have been another Spice Girls if the producers had chosen them to be that way, or the other way round.”
Yeah, unfortunately the Devil has always had the best tunes. I would like to hear your explanation for how 'evil' the lyrics of LM's 'Wings' or 'Little Me' work out?
Originally Posted by
Gameshow Host:
“I'm not asking for music sung by "good people", that would be virtually impossible, since there is evil in everyone's heart. Whether they admit it or not, all men and women are basically evil and selfish, and I have never met anyone who was truly good and pure, (aside from a few rare people who admitted they were bad, turned to Jesus Christ for salvation from their sin, and were born again of the Holy Spirit—but I'm not here to preach). On a side note, although I'm obviously a Christian, I do not like contemporary Christian music. I find most of it pretty dark and depressing.
I am a joyful, peaceful person and I like happy, sweet music.”
Well, if you are being honest about your Reformed theology and your 'Born Again' Christianity (I'm from Northern Ireland, so I know this stuff backwards as Christians are pretty thick on the ground here) then it might be advisable to listen to more traditional 'Praise' music or Gregorian Chant (probably too Catholic for you

). I say that as you seem to find modern Christian music a bit depressing.
Originally Posted by Gameshow Host:
“Since I am always being attacked, I would like to point out (in anticipation) that I am not here demanding that pop music conforms to my particular tastes. I don't really care what kind of music is popular right now. I am merely here asking for recommendations for people with (apparently unusual) taste like mine. I am also noting that things seem to have changed quite a lot in recent years, which I'm sure most will agree with? I mean music is not cute any more, right?”
Actually, there is some truth in that. You may remember that in 1985 the Parents Music Resource Center tried to get music censored for explicit lyrics, that worked when you could put stickers on CDs but it's not so effective when music went online. Some of the lyrics in Death and Doom Metal are beyond obscene. However, we are mainly concerned with pop music here. I would suggest that there is more in the way of confessional music these days (Amy, Adele, Taylor Swift, Ed Sheeran) and these artists are very popular. Admittedly when I first heard Adele sing 'hello from the other side..' i did find that disconcerting.
Originally Posted by
Gameshow Host:
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Sure. I don't have a problem with sexy acts and I love beautiful women. But there is a big difference between sexy and slutty. I am not offended by a little nudity, but I think most people can tell the difference between a girl being playful and one acting like a whore. Sadly sluttiness seems to be the default for female singers these days (and it's not the girls' fault, they are just being used as meat, as always).”
The thing is with what you have said here reflects more of your own views than it does about the women you are objectifying. You might want to check Matthew 5:28 on that. Of course, your 'Born Again' Christianity probably lets you off the hook on that one! (Proverbs 24:16)
Originally Posted by
Gameshow Host:
“For the record, though I haven't watched it, I am not against things like the Blurred Lines video. At least not on the basis of "sexism". Women are beautiful and there is nothing wrong with their beauty being celebrated and appreciated. What I have a problem with is feminism (ie subversive anti-male propaganda), which is huge right now in music and all across all the media. Feminism is evil. But I'm not here to complain. People are entitled to watch and listen to whatever they like. Watching an image won't turn someone good or bad—good and bad come from what is inside your heart. I don't believe anyone can make themselves good by trying, but through following Jesus, God can truly change a person. (OK, that last bit was preachy. Flame away.)
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If you haven't watched the video, it's probably better not to talk about it.
Your understanding of feminism is also rather weak, it's actually a method of analysing/understanding inequality in society based on gender. It isn't always right much in the same way that Christians are not always right. Christianity is a bit bigger in terms of the grand issues it deals with (e.g., the purpose of Man within the Universe created by God) but they are both frameworks or perspectives.
Your point about images is interesting. You may want to convey your views to those Christians who pray in bare churches/places of worship and those Muslims who destroy Ancient Christian monuments describing them as 'idolatrous'.
I don't think good and bad come from your heart they come from your mind and the influences on it. All this is leading to my recommendation which is really simple, if you want to listen to some beautiful music try Van Morrison ('Beautiful Vision', 'No Guru, No Method, No Teacher', 'Enlightenment').