Obviously Aliona decided the time was right!

agreed no need to pretend or imagine he actually grew princess hair specially to donate it...

there's nothing actually wrong with having the hair of a IVth form chemisty student.

if you're a IVth form chemistry student. ...

Jay's been patron of this charity since 2012 and raises money for them.
http://www.childrensbereavementcentr...centre/patron/

Hair straighteners? Gel? I'm not actually advocating it. I think he looks fine as he is. There was just a lot of silly talk (not from him) about him now having a ballroom dance hairstyle, and I wouldn't say curly hairsyles are the norm for men in ballroom dancing.

I've absolutely no doubt the hair chopping was done first and foremost with nothing but honourable, genuine intentions on his part from the start. . He appears to be a guy who - rather than talking the talk about his favoured charities (like some ) goes out of his way to actually make a different in trying to help those people.

But yeah, he got his hair cut for Strictly (?) or Aliona 'told' him to do it!

If you're not careful you'll be outed as another deranged middle-aged woman who only likes Jay because her ovaries are doing all the thinking for her.

He said on ITT that he was going to cut it at the end of the year and donate it to the charity, it just got done a little earlier.

OT: Chris Rock made a fascinating documentary called "Good Hair" all about -funnily enough- hair. In it, he looks at the hair extensions industry and how most of it comes from hair donated in India. However, some people actually steal it by surreptitiously cutting some women's hair in such places as cinemas. Excellent doc. I recommend it.

I'll have you know I've had a couple of Wanted songs on my iTunes for quite some time now!

He is cute as a button, but he's not my usual type! Another reason I might like him, besides my ovaries of course, could be that he's just lovely and a thoroughly decent chap. They do exist, I'm sure if it! It's pretty obvious he's not terribly interested in a mass of publicity. And he's not particularly active on social media. He also doesn't give 5 trillion inane interviews per week! Especially when compared to another male on the show.

Support for Kellie and in particular Peter on the forum is incredibly low. Far more likely that people who don't like Jay like Anita, Georgia, Jeremy, Helen, or even Katie. But I guess it's harder to make constant pass-agg digs about those contestants and about how their fans are gullible morons etc etc etbloodycetra

Gosh you really are anti-Jay, aren't you? You chastise those you think are spreading what you perceive to 'vile' rumours but are happy to fuel ridiculous and untrue rumours yourself? That's weird

You take every change you can to take a swipe at Jay and Aliona, but lecture from a lofty height at those you decide are not being fair on other contestants? Like Andre?

You constantly make veiled comments about other posters and threads 'spilling' bile, but you could give a masterclass on how to do it yourself.

You can't have it both ways. If we respect your right to have an opinion you really need to respect everyone else's right to have theirs, amelia lee included!

the only 'absolute beginners' left are Jeremy and Carol.

All the others have some sort of dance experience, be it dance school or private lessons a la abbey clancey.
you would be naïve or one-eyed to think otherwise!

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You know I rarely venture out of the NAT because of sense of deja vu seeing the same posters post the same thing every single week, and here we are yet again on a Friday with the same posters determined to imagine a relationship between a recently married woman and a younger man, given that it is the same posters who have been answered exactly the same way for weeks now, how about not responding anymore?

The fact that they choose to take strong exception to anyone suggesting that the rumours are as a result of a PR company tells me all I need to know about them.

The fact that it seems to them OK to try and undermine someone's marriage rather than actually countenance the fact that a man and woman can actually have a non sexual relationship is something I fail to understand.

Monkseal I don't care whether it is someone's fans or a PR company that is likely to be behind it but I find the whole thing sleazy and really I am only commenting now because the circular nature of these arguments surely has to stop sometime.

How about perhaps we could have 24 hours a week without sleaze?

ooh. like, send them to coventry you mean?

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is that counting or not counting the ladies of the NAT? what with 'climbing him like a tree', slobbering over the imaginary house slaves, and gleefully speculating about peter andre 'whoring' out his children/life/wife, i think motes and beams might be an issue...

its great that he donated it as he did. i'm just not 100% convinced he grew it for that purpose. call me cynical

Thanks for that. I wasn't aware of his involvement with the charity. I do think he was wise to cut it though when he did as it was a little distracting but what a great way for him to focus attention on this lovely charity while he has the Strictly spotlight.

Nice one, Jay.

I really do find this post hilarious.

From someone who refers to a contestant as a "vulgar little wannabe diva" who induces shadenfreude and a panellist as "intensely irritating and really quite stupid" I hardly think you have any authority to dictate what others should or shouldn't be saying about people on the show.

The majority of your posts on this forum reek of sanctimony and utter derision towards those who have a different opinion to you.

Re paragraph 2. I posted commenting on the post you mentioned. I commented because it was a post concerning on 'those' rumours that took the opportunity to make a suggestion regarding another contestant ( or their pr). It just isn't necessary to attack another celeb while defending another. What that tells you about me I do not know.

I think Ann Dancer in her post summed it up perfectly (sorry can't quote again, posting is hard enough at the moment). And, for the record, I like Jay, he's not my favourite but I have nothing against him and wouldnt mind if he won.

Or neither, unless we're attributing every time the papers have got excited that a popular partnership might be shagging, right back to Martin & Erin and Brendan & Natasha, to CAN Management.