Originally Posted by Fatima502:
“I wish Zoe would stop saying "I cried" when reflecting on what is basically a forgettable performance. I don't believe it and surely she has more important things to cry about these days.”
“I wish Zoe would stop saying "I cried" when reflecting on what is basically a forgettable performance. I don't believe it and surely she has more important things to cry about these days.”
Why don't you believe that she cried?
As a self-confessed sob-monster, it would be easy for me to say that I don't understand why other people remain so dry-eyed from series to series (fact is, I understand that we're all different).
I could also say that I don't believe them when they say that they didn't cry (does it matter? If they didn't cry, they didn't cry - we're all different. If they did cry, but don't want to say so in public, that's their prerogative).
As a self-confessed sob-monster, I know that there have been stages in my life when I've had "Important things to cry about". Those are the times when I'm much more likely to cry about other things too.
Sometimes I've managed to 'stay strong' for the important things but cried over the other things.
As life moves on, the "important things to cry about" aren't so immediate, but they remain part of me and part of my memories. Sometimes I cry because something triggers one or more of those memories.
Sometimes I cry because I find something beautiful, and/or it moves me - even when no memories are involved.
Some people cry, some people don't.
Sometimes 'I cried' means "I got a bit teary-eyed" maybe "a few tears spilled over".
Sometimes it means "I sobbed until my chest and stomach hurt, I could barely breathe and hardly see".
I cried at Ore and Joanne's dance. I could still breathe quite easily.
Maybe Zoe was the same.




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