You do not have to look very far to see how charasmatic and appealing people see Jay as being, plenty of info and vids in cyberspace that show this to be true. Maybe delusion is a condition that you are familiar with.

Yeah we could all just ignore what we disagree with, it would not leave much to debate though.

I will take your last paragraph as a warning, and maybe an attempt to stop me from posting, I do not take well to manipulation and scare tactics, but you have the right to play detective all day long.

I agree but maybe this debate should have been left alone instead of some having a go at the poster.

Why would you take it as a 'warning'? It's merely an observation based on cases in the media whereby employees have been reprimanded/disciplined for indiscretion on social media.

Post whatever you like. You're either connected to the show and are happy to drip information via the Internet, or you're not connected to the show at all and are making it up. Either way, it doesn't affect me.

Or maybe the poster should have accepted how insensitve and plain wrong his post was And I do not really see that people are having a go at said poster but merely debating his dodgy opinion.

I think that would be the latter.........imo

I understand, you just want me to retract my opinion because you disagree with it, Sorry, that is not how this works.

OK we will have to agree to disagree on this.

Exactly

Yes I realise this would be difficult, I disagree with the fact that you even felt the need to express such an opinion, it is not based on anything other than fancy and has no basis in fact.

Thank you for clarifying, it is good to know that there was no intention to silence me on your part, it is just my opinion and nothing more.

Then you posses all the truth and we should only listen to you.

I like Jay, He is a fantastic dancer. He does all the right things with his hands and feet. He applies himself to the dance and does the very best he can. The judges, by their own admission, are being picky and looking for more because they know he is capable of more.

All he needs to do is get a good acting coach to teach him the acting skills he lacks. I suspect he doesn't lack them at all but that he is placing all his concentration on getting the dance perfect.

I am not sure what these rumours are. I suspect they are just made up stories which are now sadly part of this programme, with the media starting stuff even before the programme is launched.

Look at the stories they printed about Georgia at the start but they have had to shut up when her boyfriend is regularly in the audience proudly cheering her on.

Finally, don't get me started on the 'syndrome'. How anyone can seriously make such a claim based on the brief chats he has on the show is a mystery to me. Anytime he has appeared on It Takes Two, he has appeared much more relaxed and full of fun.

If the person making this claim does work on the show as has been suggested, then shame on you for spreading ridiculous gossip.

it sure sounds like a warning to me.

ETA didn't you suggest someone should be sectioned for liking peter andre. or was it sterilised.

Apparently it's called debating

some people have so many faces they could go to group analysis all by themseves....

Is there a label for that condition?

yes, it is called "I don't have a life so I have many different log in names syndrome"

I think you're deliberately looking too much into what people are saying regarding your post. I originally suggested you amend it as it could be considered libellous. Others have, quite rightly, challenged your rationale for making your uneducated observation. You have counteracted by referring to your nephew, which did not address the challenges made. People will, in turn, challenge why you haven't answered the question.

You are now accusing some who have challenged you with scare tactics and claimed one would play detective to out you, when, in fact, they were politely advising you that no one is guaranteed anonymity on social media and that you may wish to reconsider your original allegation against Jay. Btw, I'm not a fan of Jay, I am a fan of SCD, so please don't call me a Jay fan.

In essence, by vocalising your thoughts and opinions on social media, you lay that very opinion open to scrutiny by fellow posters.

Personally, I think you are now attention seeking - no one is using scare tactics, no one is going to play detective. Yes, people have the right to an opinion, no disputes that, but equally, other people have the right to challenge what you have said.

Faux victim playing irritates me, and for that reason, I'm out.

Really!!! You do like to post assumptions about people you don't know. Twaddlemania perhaps.......................or just plain Bull.

I think that is very sensible, I will take your lead.

It amuses me that some people are of the opinion that posting a denigrating and dismissive response to someone else's opinions, qualifies as "a debate."

No attention seeking on my part or playing the victim, just replying to forum members with whom I disagree, but I guess you are out.