Once again, nobody got 'into a state' about what Monica said. People commented on it, which is natural. We see things and comment on them. Nobody is hysterical - in fact many people have pointed out that it was clearly not done with any negative intent, and was clearly a spur of the moment thing, done when she was in an emotional state, and meant as a comment/gesture of support to her fellow contestants.
All that being said, it was ill-judged and inappropriate, whatever way you look at it, and I suspect that Monica realised that pretty quickly.