Originally Posted by Salcy:
“Exactly the point, and one that should have been raised. There seems to be a massive increase in men in their 30's and 40's who aren't ready to have children. If anyone has 'denigrated' fatherhood' its these men who have made themselves biologically redundant.”
Even moreso, those who appear to father children indiscriminately, then disappear when it comes time to actually parent.
I am not arguing that every mother is perfect, of course not, but the topic was about fatherhood so I'm discussing fathers.
Matthew did briefly mention fathers who don't live up to their parental responsibilities, but only to counter the caller who had missed the point of the call.
If you are ok in principle with sperm donation I cannot see what the problem is with putting selection on an app.
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“Many women have a biological urge to have children, and can't hang around waiting for the right man to come along and then wait for him to decide he wants children. I bet most of the women who use the app are highly educated and able to support a child financially and emotionally. If they haven't met the right man, who is to say that they shouldn't have a child that is loved and cherished by them and their extended family? You can have a relationship any time. You can't have a child any time.”
I would expect you're entirely right about the type of woman who is using the app.
Children do not necessarily need two involved parents if two aren't willing and able to ve involved.
I would support the rights of any parent who was being denied access to their child, but I know many people who have raised children on their own for various reasons and have done wonderfully.