Originally Posted by Theophile:
“I notice that there is no refutation to the facts that all of the men die. Of course, there can't be since they all die. ”
To be fair, with the exception of Adric, your examples were not related to Companions. Companions rarely die whether they are male or female. When it's non-companions they are all fair game, male or not! Plenty of females have died last season that weren't companions.
Personally, I've always loved super-heroic females. When I was growing up I used to love Charlies' Angels, the Bionic Woman and Wonder Woman. Much more appealing, to me, than the male-led shows. Later it was Xena, Buffy, Dark Angel...
I used to love Romana as a companion because she was the equal of the Doctor and Clara's one of my favourite companions precisely because she's so capable.
Never been a problem for me
To address some of your other points:
If he could have saved Adric without violating the laws of time I'm sure he would have but, in any case, Clara is particularly special. Splinters of her have been watching over him throughout the entirety of his existence. She saved him from his depression in the Snow men, getting him to engage in the world again. She saved his life (and the Universe) by risking her own, throwing herself into his timeline. She saved him from making the biggest mistake in his life when she urged him to find another way besides destroying Gallifrey. Like it or not, she is the single most important companion he has ever had so, of course, he's going to make every effort to save her.
But he didn't save her by submitting to billions of years of torment. As far as any individual instance of the Doctor is concerned, it's just a few weeks of boredom and a short period of pain. He doesn't have a continuous memory of those billions of years. Besides, he didn't do all that to save Clara, he did it to escape the prison the Time Lords put him in. He'd have done that, Clara or not!
As far as the memory device is concerned, Clara has had multiple lifetimes, including at least one on Gallifrey, to learn how to manipulate Gallifreyan tech as well as being uploaded with advanced hacking skills by the Great Intelligence. I don't have a problem believing she could do that.
The Doctor let her take his memory because he realized she was right. He had no right to take away her memories so if the solution was to give up his own then, so be it.
With respect to Me still remembering stuff after billions of years I was not happy with the idea that she'd lived billions of years. I find the whole idea pretty preposterous, particularly for her to be seemingly unchanged in character or temperament. Captain Jack became a big disembodied face in less than that time!
The memory thing is not such a big deal. Apart from the fact that she always used to write important stuff down so that she would remember, they could easily have come up with technology to enhance brain/memory capacity during the intervening time.