Originally Posted by vixj83:
“One thing that has really struck me over this tiresome 'who's the baddy' war, is how some people have a wildly differend idea over what constitutes bullying than others. There is more than one type of bullying but I think many on this forum have a rather more simplistic view.
I found this online, I will just leave it here. I think there's no doubt that several members of the Jungle cast this year have been guilty of several of these things. Also worth taking into consideration is who did what in what order of course....if you get bullied you might well react in a bullyish way to stand up for yourself (this happens, often in schools it is the bullied party who gets caught out retaliating and gets punished), while others might just retreat and hide away. I will just say, I'm trying to be totally impartial because Lady C, Tony and Duncan have all done my head in and I liked all at the start but now I can't say I like any of them.
I just think this is very interesting and in many ways, worrying.
Examples of overt bullying
Verbal abuse, such as shouting or swearing at staff or colleagues either in public or private
Personal insults
Constantly humiliating or ridiculing others, belittling them in front of others, persistent criticism or sarcasm
Terror tactics, open aggression, threats, abuse, and obscenities towards targets, shouting and uncontrolled anger triggered by trivial situations
Persecution through threats and fear, physical attacks
Making threats or inappropriate comments about career prospects, job security or performance appraisal reports
(I know what you're thinking, Lady C did some of those, but just wait)
Examples of covert bullying
Subjecting targets to excessive supervision, monitoring everything they do and being excessively critical about minor things with malicious intent
Taking the credit for the other person’s work, but never the blame when things go wrong
Personal insults and name-calling, spreading malicious rumours
Freezing out, ignoring, excluding and deliberately talking to a third party to isolate another
Never listening to other’s point of view, always cutting across people in conversation
Overruling an individual’s authority without prior warning or proper discussion
Removing whole areas of work responsibility from a person, reducing their job to routine tasks which are well below their skills and capabilities
Setting impossible targets and objectives, or changing targets without telling the person
Deliberately withholding information which the person requires in order to do their job effectively”
Yup - most of these apply to 'lady' C - don't think any of the others are guilty here! She isolated herself by being so bitchy which she knew was intimidating. ALL the campmates, including her buddy Keiron, found her oppressive and unpleasant to be with when she was in a bad mood.