I think when it's a dancer's natural time to go, they know it and expect it, and it might hurt, but probably it doesn't hurt as much. You hear that phrase a lot. It was my time to go. Leaving ahead of their natural time is more upsetting both for the contestant and for the audience. Not because of judges or public votes or any of that stuff, I feel. It's more the sense of wasted opportunity and of not being prepared for it to end.
They're not daft. It's only TV and not a whole new career for them but on the other hand SCD takes a genuine toll on them -- all the training, the aches, the hours, mental tiredness, physical tiredness, emotional ups and downs, the intimacy of this new relationship they have to make work for long hours and all week. I'm not surprised or offended that they get upset.
To read this forum, well, parts of it, you'd have expected Helen to break down utterly and Georgia to dissolve into tears. Full credit to both women. They were absolutely strong and generous to the occasion despite the emotional nature of it. Kind of impressive