Originally Posted by
mimi dlc:
“Thank you (I think)
I just don't like to see unnecessary rudeness to somone who is a longstanding and greatly liked member of the forum (ie Monkseal) just because they are not riding on the Jay bandwagon.
(that makes it sounds like I consider rudeness to newbies is ok and totally necessary. Which it is...
)”
That was a good answer to Lorraine about Aliona, and delivered in exactly the right way.
I understand people being very outraged at what Jay said about the toddler. It is the normal reaction.
I'd learned a bit about him before that, so my initial reaction was that the most likely explanation was that he was extremely bad at describing how cute a toddler is (he does add "Cute!" at the end). As time has gone on, from observation of him, that opinion of what he meant has grown stronger.
It does seem that there is a similar local saying where he was raised and he tried to exaggerate it to mean that the toddler was even cuter. At least the child's mother seemed to have understood about Jay well enough to have realised his intention was good.
Definitely something someone 25 years old should have filtered away from possibly saying, but I guess he now has the filter.
It was a case of putting your foot in your mouth and trying to cram the other one in too, IMO.