Originally Posted by blueisthecolour:
“^^^Good luck Bermondseybrick^^^^
Ages ago I started a thread asking for examples of people who have successfully lost weight and then kept it off for an extended period of time (at least 3 years). Because I do worry from reading these posts that we all seem to go through the same cycle; we decide to lose weight, put a lot of effort into changing our lifestyle, have success but then 'something' happens that mean we can't exercise/eat healthily anymore and fall back into the same patterns and put it all back on again.
I'm really searching for a way that I can fundamentally change my life that will result in weight loss that isnt' dependent on gym routines or really strict diets that you have to constantly monitor. I know it's possible because I see people around me all the time who stay a reasonable weight but seem to put very little effort into it. Yes, they may put on a few pounds over holidays or if they're out drinking a lot but usually all it takes is a couple of months of healthy living and they're back to normal.
I know that some of it is genetics but the rest must be psychological. Basically we spend all our time worrying about exercise and diet when really we should be worrying about our mental state.”
I know it sounds like a cliché but you really have to commit a lifestyle change (I have despite the blip over Christmas)if it wasn't for the injury id still be in the high 13 low 14 range . I genuinely love working out now. Whereas before I started this lifestyle all I did was sit on my ass and eat pizza and take away and did zero exercise. AS for the mental aspect side of it again sounds simplistic but the better you look the better you do feel about yourself when I was at my lowest weight I felt invincible (and I have had on occasions self esteem issues) but not anymore
I'm working out at a bootcamp 6 times a week with a bunch of people that make you want to go back again and again which is what I was doing when I lost the most weight with less sessions
I don't necessarily struggle with healthy eating per se but I do get bored and that's totally on me because I tend to stick the same foods and routine every day. I like enough different types of food to have a varied and healthy diet without being hungry in fact I tend to struggle with eating enough at times
my advice would be
exercise is a must (once you start to see results it becomes addictive) find something you enjoy for me its bootcamp I cant abide the gym or long distance running
diet is probably the most important thing (yeah I know its obvious

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making HEALTHY and VAIRED food is the key don't religiously stick to the same foods everyday that's a sure fire way to start wanting to binge
Hate to say this as I've seen this advice on this thread before and last years thread sadly you do have to deny yourself the things that are bad for you (Personally I have a mega sweet tooth and have a weakness for Gregg's cream doughnuts) but you cannot eat "bad" food but in saying that give yourself a cheat meal once a week for dinner eat whatever you want and enjoy every scrap of it
sorry for the essay
TL : DR
eat healthy exercise hard no bad foods