Originally Posted by ZoeTate:
“I am sorry, I don't know who it is in that photo either.
Regarding Ashley, I think I had more sympathy for him because, having watched my family deal with my elderly grandparents, my grandparents did the same thing of refusing help under the guise of "We don't want to be a bother". Of course the fuss & bother from the preventable (and predictable) incidents that happened when they tried to cope on their own was many, many times the fuss & bother that the actual help would have been so it was very frustrating. What Ashley did was wrong, but I understand the emotions behind it. Not to mention that Sandy was cruel to him as well.
Andy I am more or less OK with because they've shown him struggling with his anger management issues once in a while since then - it's not something that was magically resolved. Still wouldn't want my sister to date him though.”
“I am sorry, I don't know who it is in that photo either.
Regarding Ashley, I think I had more sympathy for him because, having watched my family deal with my elderly grandparents, my grandparents did the same thing of refusing help under the guise of "We don't want to be a bother". Of course the fuss & bother from the preventable (and predictable) incidents that happened when they tried to cope on their own was many, many times the fuss & bother that the actual help would have been so it was very frustrating. What Ashley did was wrong, but I understand the emotions behind it. Not to mention that Sandy was cruel to him as well.
Andy I am more or less OK with because they've shown him struggling with his anger management issues once in a while since then - it's not something that was magically resolved. Still wouldn't want my sister to date him though.”
That's exactly how I feel about Andy. They haven't tried to gloss over what he's done. He's struggled with it. I am OK with him as a character. But any future relationship sure as hell needs to be approached with caution.








