dont get the hate from stephanie she only and a little kiss and hug together yes she has or had a boyfirend but so what shes in a house with a good ;looking man what do you escpect!! plus my sister is flurty with guys and her boyfriend dont care! her boyfriend dumping her over twitter childish prick or what! ... sorry for the bad spelling
dont get the hate from stephaine
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I don't hate her. She's a bit annoying, and the producers are shoving her down our throats, but she's ultimately harmless.
Originally Posted by Arthur_B:
“I don't hate her. She's a bit annoying, and the producers are shoving her down our throats, but she's ultimately harmless.”
“I don't hate her. She's a bit annoying, and the producers are shoving her down our throats, but she's ultimately harmless.”
well said the producers edited to makes things worse.......
I'm sorry but as a young guy myself, I would be concerned by her behaviour towards Jeremy if I was her partner. Maybe I live in a different universe from other people, but I don't think it's normal for a girl who's taken, getting in bed with another guy cuddling, kissing, saying "Love you" etc .......
Originally Posted by Ryeboy123:
“dont get the hate from stephanie she only and a little kiss and hug together yes she has or had a boyfirend but so what shes in a house with a good ;looking man what do you escpect!! plus my sister is flurty with guys and her boyfriend dont care! her boyfriend dumping her over twitter childish prick or what! ... sorry for the bad spelling”
“dont get the hate from stephanie she only and a little kiss and hug together yes she has or had a boyfirend but so what shes in a house with a good ;looking man what do you escpect!! plus my sister is flurty with guys and her boyfriend dont care! her boyfriend dumping her over twitter childish prick or what! ... sorry for the bad spelling”
wonder how she would feel watching her BF on National TV cosying up to a woman in the house, not very forgiving i'd imagine
she's dented his pride, humiliated him on National TV,
I'd imagine they chatted about her and 'other' guys in the house before she went in, and she reassured him that she'd behave herself at the very least, and if they didn't discuss it , he was naturally being very trusting of her and felt he didn't need to discuss 'other' guys being in the house
spark is there and she keeps going back for more (as Vanessa said on BBBOTS), she asked HIM for a hug while she was lying in her bed earlier on live feed
she not only likes his attention but she's attracted to him , not what a woman with a BF she genuinely loved would do
Originally Posted by LaurenFan118118:
“Steph done nothing
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“Steph done nothing
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Are you one of these people that believe the guy alone is at fault, and the female a harmless victim? Did he threaten her to lay on the bed for kisses and cuddles? I can't stand either of them, him for pursuing her knowing she has a boyfriend, and her for being weak.
I don't hate her but she's not blameless and I really don't blame her boyfriend for breaking it off.
She's flirted, got into bed, and kissed another guy on national TV, all while she has a boyfriend at home. It may appear like harmless flirting to some but can you imagine how he feels? It must be humiliating for him.
She has no respect for him so why should he for her?
As daft at Scotty is, he was right when he said other people have partners in the house but have not behaved like Steph has.
The reason she is having a breakdown is being she knows she's overstepped the line, which she has.
She's flirted, got into bed, and kissed another guy on national TV, all while she has a boyfriend at home. It may appear like harmless flirting to some but can you imagine how he feels? It must be humiliating for him.
She has no respect for him so why should he for her?
As daft at Scotty is, he was right when he said other people have partners in the house but have not behaved like Steph has.
The reason she is having a breakdown is being she knows she's overstepped the line, which she has.
You just know that had the shoe been on the other foot, she would have kicked off if her boyfriend was publicly flirting in the same way.
Plus, to me it's past the point of flirting. Jeremy likes her and she knows it yet she still actively encourages him because she craves the attention. Which is giving him the hope that something more will happen so he keeps pursuing her.
She only has herself to blame OP. Just because there is a good looking guy in the house it doesn't mean she has to flirt with him. Leave that to the single girls.
Plus, to me it's past the point of flirting. Jeremy likes her and she knows it yet she still actively encourages him because she craves the attention. Which is giving him the hope that something more will happen so he keeps pursuing her.
She only has herself to blame OP. Just because there is a good looking guy in the house it doesn't mean she has to flirt with him. Leave that to the single girls.
Well like she said she knew he liked her and by getting into bed with him and kissing him is just encouraging the situation which if I was her boyfriend I would be upset by.
Originally Posted by Tom-Bennett.:
“I'm sorry but as a young guy myself, I would be concerned by her behaviour towards Jeremy if I was her partner. Maybe I live in a different universe from other people, but I don't think it's normal for a girl who's taken, getting in bed with another guy cuddling, kissing, saying "Love you" etc .......”
“I'm sorry but as a young guy myself, I would be concerned by her behaviour towards Jeremy if I was her partner. Maybe I live in a different universe from other people, but I don't think it's normal for a girl who's taken, getting in bed with another guy cuddling, kissing, saying "Love you" etc .......”
You're not wrong, her behaviour has been questionable, you just don't get into bed with another guy, kiss him, let him kiss you & then say love you. It's really disrespectful to her boyfriend watching on the outside.
She's brought it on herself by her actions, no-one forced her to share a bed or a snog with some guy she barely knows!
It's just typical DS, OP; sadly.
When we had the Daley/Hazel who-haw, Hazel got ALL the hate. She's a female. He was the one with the partner - but she got all the hate.
Now we have Jeremy/Stephanie and Stephanie's getting ALL the hate. She's female. She is the one with the partner - but he's getting none of the hate.
It's the way of DS and, worryingly, the way of the world.
On her flirting, it has been a bit OTT. But it never ceases to amaze me how or why flirting is considered a cardinal sin on here.
Flirting is natural and innate. I'm an inveterate flirt. I don't think I could stop if I tried. And I've been happily married for 15 years. I will concede, though, that the flirting does not involve cuddling in bed with another man.
When we had the Daley/Hazel who-haw, Hazel got ALL the hate. She's a female. He was the one with the partner - but she got all the hate.
Now we have Jeremy/Stephanie and Stephanie's getting ALL the hate. She's female. She is the one with the partner - but he's getting none of the hate.
It's the way of DS and, worryingly, the way of the world.
On her flirting, it has been a bit OTT. But it never ceases to amaze me how or why flirting is considered a cardinal sin on here.
Flirting is natural and innate. I'm an inveterate flirt. I don't think I could stop if I tried. And I've been happily married for 15 years. I will concede, though, that the flirting does not involve cuddling in bed with another man.
Really? Really?
This generation sees getting into bed and kissing another guy (who has made his intentions clear) as "harmless flirting"
At what point would you say a line was crossed? Penetration?
This generation sees getting into bed and kissing another guy (who has made his intentions clear) as "harmless flirting"
At what point would you say a line was crossed? Penetration?
Originally Posted by patsylimerick:
“On her flirting, it has been a bit OTT. But it never ceases to amaze me how or why flirting is considered a cardinal sin on here.”
“On her flirting, it has been a bit OTT. But it never ceases to amaze me how or why flirting is considered a cardinal sin on here.”
Kissing and having cuddles in bed is past flirting in my eyes.
Originally Posted by Dr Z:
“At what point would you say a line was crossed? Penetration?”
“At what point would you say a line was crossed? Penetration?”
You would have to define how deep first.
I'm seeing a lot of people giving her boyfriend flack for dumping her on twitter!
Along with the nation, He has watched his Girlfriend and Jeremy wrap themselves around each other, lay in bed cuddling, kissing and told each other "I love you",
....and you think he owes her the benefit of some kind of doubt? Or a more dignified 'dumping' ?
Amazing.
Along with the nation, He has watched his Girlfriend and Jeremy wrap themselves around each other, lay in bed cuddling, kissing and told each other "I love you",
....and you think he owes her the benefit of some kind of doubt? Or a more dignified 'dumping' ?
Amazing.
Flirtings pretty normal for some people in relationships. Bit of fun, bit of naughty, a silly game without perceived consequences. In real life it'll cause a few arguments of course, "You were flirting with that person!" - "Oh I wasn't flirting, I was just having a laugh!" - it causes insecurity and power shifts but can be talked through and talked out and might be considered a 'minor' infraction within the boundaries of the relationship...
...but this isn't real life, it's a completely different ball-game. There simply isn't s real life comparison to the BB scenario. In the real world your not flirting with someone who you also live with 24 hours a day, never being able to leave and never having any contact with your actual partner, sharing the bed with them, sleeping cuddled up next to them, waking up with them each morning... All whilst your partner sits at home watching it on the television, powerless to get into the aforementioned 'you were flirting with that person' argument and doubtless having their friends and family constantly passing comment on what's happening... Which one can only imagine is utterly humiliating.
...but this isn't real life, it's a completely different ball-game. There simply isn't s real life comparison to the BB scenario. In the real world your not flirting with someone who you also live with 24 hours a day, never being able to leave and never having any contact with your actual partner, sharing the bed with them, sleeping cuddled up next to them, waking up with them each morning... All whilst your partner sits at home watching it on the television, powerless to get into the aforementioned 'you were flirting with that person' argument and doubtless having their friends and family constantly passing comment on what's happening... Which one can only imagine is utterly humiliating.
I think she has clearly demonstrated that she has no self awareness whatsoever.
YOU JUST DON'T DO THAT!
YOU JUST DON'T DO THAT!
Originally Posted by patsylimerick:
“It's just typical DS, OP; sadly.
When we had the Daley/Hazel who-haw, Hazel got ALL the hate. She's a female. He was the one with the partner - but she got all the hate.
Now we have Jeremy/Stephanie and Stephanie's getting ALL the hate. She's female. She is the one with the partner - but he's getting none of the hate.
It's the way of DS and, worryingly, the way of the world.
On her flirting, it has been a bit OTT. But it never ceases to amaze me how or why flirting is considered a cardinal sin on here.
Flirting is natural and innate. I'm an inveterate flirt. I don't think I could stop if I tried. And I've been happily married for 15 years. I will concede, though, that the flirting does not involve cuddling in bed with another man.”
“It's just typical DS, OP; sadly.
When we had the Daley/Hazel who-haw, Hazel got ALL the hate. She's a female. He was the one with the partner - but she got all the hate.
Now we have Jeremy/Stephanie and Stephanie's getting ALL the hate. She's female. She is the one with the partner - but he's getting none of the hate.
It's the way of DS and, worryingly, the way of the world.
On her flirting, it has been a bit OTT. But it never ceases to amaze me how or why flirting is considered a cardinal sin on here.
Flirting is natural and innate. I'm an inveterate flirt. I don't think I could stop if I tried. And I've been happily married for 15 years. I will concede, though, that the flirting does not involve cuddling in bed with another man.”
That may be but as KT_Dog said, it's a different ball game when you're flirting with someone all day every day (and on national television may I add). It's one thing having a harmless flirt that your OH doesn't know about but to do it publicly is going to make him look like a doormat and a fool.
I'm afraid she has crossed a few lines, my husband and I have both said we wouldn't place ourselves in situations we know the other wouldn't like ie sitting on guys laps, sharing beds, kissing, cuddling, talking about how awkward it is around certain people
Its really quite bad when you look at it
But I don't hate her, she is a young celeb and she got caught in BBs web, as often someone does
Its really quite bad when you look at it
But I don't hate her, she is a young celeb and she got caught in BBs web, as often someone does
What Stephanie is doing goes way beyond 'harmless flirting'. She's a silly girl, who seems to lack basic social skills and common sense. I liked her in Over The Rainbow, but there's been no growth in her as a person since then. When she was in OTR, she mentioned that she couldn't cook, and one of her VTs centred around her inability to cook (a celebrity chef was sent to the house where the contestants were living to show her a simple recipe). Fast forward 5 years, and the first thing she says on seeing the unlocked CBB kitchen was "I can't cook, but I want to learn how!"
There's something rather sad and desperate about Stephanie. She has genuine talent as a singer and actress, yet she seems more interested in partying and going down the 'Reality' route. If she's not careful, she'll end up being another Daniella, acting career down the pan, struggling with addiction and looking old before her time.
There's something rather sad and desperate about Stephanie. She has genuine talent as a singer and actress, yet she seems more interested in partying and going down the 'Reality' route. If she's not careful, she'll end up being another Daniella, acting career down the pan, struggling with addiction and looking old before her time.
Originally Posted by patsylimerick:
“It's just typical DS, OP; sadly.
When we had the Daley/Hazel who-haw, Hazel got ALL the hate. She's a female. He was the one with the partner - but she got all the hate.
Now we have Jeremy/Stephanie and Stephanie's getting ALL the hate. She's female. She is the one with the partner - but he's getting none of the hate.
It's the way of DS and, worryingly, the way of the world.
On her flirting, it has been a bit OTT. But it never ceases to amaze me how or why flirting is considered a cardinal sin on here.
Flirting is natural and innate. I'm an inveterate flirt. I don't think I could stop if I tried. And I've been happily married for 15 years. I will concede, though, that the flirting does not involve cuddling in bed with another man.”
“It's just typical DS, OP; sadly.
When we had the Daley/Hazel who-haw, Hazel got ALL the hate. She's a female. He was the one with the partner - but she got all the hate.
Now we have Jeremy/Stephanie and Stephanie's getting ALL the hate. She's female. She is the one with the partner - but he's getting none of the hate.
It's the way of DS and, worryingly, the way of the world.
On her flirting, it has been a bit OTT. But it never ceases to amaze me how or why flirting is considered a cardinal sin on here.
Flirting is natural and innate. I'm an inveterate flirt. I don't think I could stop if I tried. And I've been happily married for 15 years. I will concede, though, that the flirting does not involve cuddling in bed with another man.”
I don't think Stephanie kissing and cuddling in bed with whatshisclogs is seemly or consistant with a professed existing relationship; and I am exceptionally liberal when compared to much of the DS community. However it doesn't make me hate her It just makes me doubt the validity/value of her so called existing relationship and conclude that it is perhaps more of an accessory than a genuine pairing.
But I do agree with your wider point about who gets the flack. Daley and Hazel were flirting in a manner that many felt was beyond the line. Daley was in the relationship, although he was very ambiguous about that. Hazel was single. She got most of the flack and the girlfriend got all the sympathy.
Stephanie is the attached partner and she is getting the flack here. I am not hearing anyone call the guy a homewrecker (except interestingly himself in the diary room)
Kristina is having a relationship with a man who was married at the time of meeting. He and she claim that he ended his marraige before acting on their attraction. His wife says differently. Ben had taken/broken vows. Kristina was single. The wife gets all the sympathy. Kristina gets the homewrecker title and Ben - not much comment.
Angie Bowie was rejected by her husband 30 years ago. She is getting the flack because either
a) She is not grieving enough
b) Is grieving too much,
c) Is failing to acknowledge that nothing from that 30 year old relationship has anything to do with her anymore
d) Is carrying on with her life as if that former relationship is in the past which disrespectful to the family who rejected her 30 years ago.
(sorry for the multi choice I am not sure what the stick du jour is today)
I do wish someone would let me have the rule book so I know who is in the wrong in these matters.
Nothing to do with what she's doing with men I just find her very irritating, childish and easily led.
I could understand your point of view on this, if you didn't ruin it by then calling her boyfriend a prick for not wanting to put up with being cheated on(or mugged off, in stephs words) on TV. Because thats pretty much whats happening here.
Really does seem some think women should be able to do whatever the hell they like while blokes are in the wrong for even breathing.
Really does seem some think women should be able to do whatever the hell they like while blokes are in the wrong for even breathing.
for starters your sisters boyfriend is probably a cuckold.
if Stephanie wasn't an average looking mouthy reject and was instead a much better looking woman doing what she's doing it would be seen different..if her boyfriend was in the house and doing what she was doing and she dumped him on twitter the reaction would be different.
if Stephanie wasn't an average looking mouthy reject and was instead a much better looking woman doing what she's doing it would be seen different..if her boyfriend was in the house and doing what she was doing and she dumped him on twitter the reaction would be different.
Originally Posted by An Thropologist:
“Angie Bowie was rejected by her husband 30 years ago. She is getting the flack because either
a) She is not grieving enough
b) Is grieving too much,
c) Is failing to acknowledge that nothing from that 30 year old relationship has anything to do with her anymore
d) Is carrying on with her life as if that former relationship is in the past which disrespectful to the family who rejected her 30 years ago.
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“Angie Bowie was rejected by her husband 30 years ago. She is getting the flack because either
a) She is not grieving enough
b) Is grieving too much,
c) Is failing to acknowledge that nothing from that 30 year old relationship has anything to do with her anymore
d) Is carrying on with her life as if that former relationship is in the past which disrespectful to the family who rejected her 30 years ago.
”
I can only speak for myself, but I don't particularly judge Angie Bowie over her choosing to stay in the house. Only she knows how this news has affected her or what obligations to others involved exist if any(i.e. her son?).
I am more appalled at BB/Ch5 for milking her grief and using it as a promo for the following nights program!
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