Originally Posted by aggielane:
“I think people forget how young they were. We have total strangers grieving for him like they knew him, i think she is entitled to remember the man she married or even just the icon he became.”
The death of someone in your circle (past or present) can be a profound thing for anyone. How much you liked them or not is immaterial. In fact often the people who struggle most with the passing of someone they knew are those who were most at odds with them.
When someone you used to know dies it tends to propel you back to the time you knew them. This may provoke guilt, nostalgic feelings, re-open old wounds. It confronts us with the passage of time, of aging and of our own appraoching death. The death of someone who used to be significant may remind you of what might have been. It can close the door to secret dreams. Something that yesterday was a possiblity is suddenly never going to be possible. You will never again be able to say I am sorry.
Death stirs up a soup of emotion in most people. Angie included I am sure.