Here we are...

http://www.brocode.org/

However half of these are now out of date. Really close friends do some of this stuff. I guess James and Austin would be an example of following half of these rules.

I am not sure the 'girl code' really holds much water either to be honest Pen. I think it exists mostly so that when a girl follows her passions other gitrls can express their outrage by referring to some moral code she is supposed to conform to.

Yes the double standard is at play -Jeremy deserves criticism too but Stephanie has been blatantly immature in refusing to take responsibility for her actions blaming big brother for any damage to her relationship with Sam Reece rather than her own actions not to mention infuriatingly contradictory in crying over her boyfriend in the diary room and snuggling up to Jeremy in bed.

She seems the type of person who won't own their own mess and likes to have their cake and eat it.

I think what annoys the viewers about Stephanie is that she genuinely doesn't know what she wants. She does things, then cries about her boyfriend, she then does it again and blames BB for "ruining" her relationship.

It would have been less damaging to her if she toned it down and not cried over a boyfriend. The fact she has cried numerous times tells people and her boyfriend there is something Sam should be worrying about. By crying, she sounds like she's in the "middle" and also in the wrong in the way she's acting.

She wouldn't be crying if there wasn't any truth in it.

Sexism and racism typical things in our society.....

Absolutely. And thoise actions serve to remind everyone that she has a boyfriend, that she hasn't forgotten that she has a boyfriend, that she is aware of what she is doing and she knows she is doing wrong.

In strategic terms she could hardly make it worse.

Because he's a man, obviously.. doesn't make Stephenie any less of a s*** tho.

Male or female, I feel that the person who is in the relationship is more at fault. A flirtation can easily be shot down instead of encouraged.

Jeremy is flipping gorgeous and for me that is why lol

Lol a female code... Best mate code .... No way. No code exist. If a person wants something they'll create or take an opportunity. Watched loads of women cheat on their mates. . . It's a complete myth women are nice.

So Steph should be left alone. It's funny what's she doing, it all panto.

Or simply enjoyed at that level. I have a long term male friend and we have ben flirting outrageuosly for 25 years. Its never gone beyond that and it never will.