Originally Posted by ForGodsSake:
“because she was a vile, offensive person ?”
“because she was a vile, offensive person ?”
She told a few home truths. The house needed that. Now people know.
Megan's not even slightly sorry about anything!!!!
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Don't take BB's bollocking too seriously, they loved Megan's outburst as much as many of us did. She made yesterday's show.
I agree with what she was saying last night but she went about it completely the wrong way . No excuse for all that ranting and shouting . She seems to be one of those people that lets some aggravation build and build until they explode in a drunken, raging torrent .
Not the best people to be around .
Although John certainly got the message judging by his actions today . Whether he'll change, I very much doubt .
Not the best people to be around .
Although John certainly got the message judging by his actions today . Whether he'll change, I very much doubt .
Originally Posted by lee_mccleary:
“She told a few home truths. The house needed that. Now people know.”
“She told a few home truths. The house needed that. Now people know.”
Its nothing to do with what she said. Its about the foulmounthed crazy aggressive deranged way she behaved when she said it and i worry about anyone who thinks that that sort of behaviour is acceptable
Originally Posted by Flo71:
“Because as she said she doesn't want it to affect how the public think about her. She is as thick as two short planks.”
“Because as she said she doesn't want it to affect how the public think about her. She is as thick as two short planks.”
Exactly.
She is apologizing for making a remark that some people might have found racist and for backchatting Big Brother but not anything else.
She doesn't accept that her behaviour in the main house towards John, tiffany and thing air was aggressive or unacceptable and thinks she is being victimized for receiving a warning.
A half hearted apology is no a apology at all.
She can stand by what she was saying about and to John whilst apologizing for the way she said it but she clearly doesn't see anything wrong with the way she said it. Just putting it down to alcohol.
Well, if alcohol makes her behave like that, she needs to stop drinking.
Originally Posted by fisch:
“Err she is apologising now.”
“Err she is apologising now.”
She may well be but that's not the point. I'm not offended, she doesn't need to apologise to me with empty words.
The point is that after apologising she was pretty much saying that nothing was her fault and the fault lies with other people.
It's about owning responsibility, not just apologising to anyone who might be offended because you said a naughty word.
Originally Posted by lee_mccleary:
“Why should she be sorry?”
“Why should she be sorry?”
She behaved so politely and with such decorum that I too have no idea why Megan should be sorry about anything.
Originally Posted by rachybark:
“Its nothing to do with what she said. Its about the foulmounthed crazy aggressive deranged way she behaved when she said it and i worry about anyone who thinks that that sort of behaviour is acceptable”
“Its nothing to do with what she said. Its about the foulmounthed crazy aggressive deranged way she behaved when she said it and i worry about anyone who thinks that that sort of behaviour is acceptable”
Totally agree, whether she was right or wrong she behaved like a madwoman, the aggression was awful the language was awful, and like you I can't see why people would say that doesn't matter or can be excused even if they think her points were right.
Her attitude when she first came out of the diary room was still one of defiance, there was no sorry for my language to the other housemates or sorry for my aggression and behaviour although to be fair they didn't take her up on her behaviour either., which I'm surprised at. If that was my friend and she behaved like that I'd be making her aware of her behaviour were it that extreme. Glad to see she went in and apologised in the diary room afterwards, though I think her motives were more to sweeten BB as she knew she had received a warning rather than any serious regret about how she behaved.
So proud of Megan for standing up to the bullies and standing her ground today. She's a BB legend already.
Originally Posted by aurichie:
“So proud of Megan for standing up to the bullies and standing her ground today. She's a BB legend already.”
“So proud of Megan for standing up to the bullies and standing her ground today. She's a BB legend already.”
Haha well that is obviously a matter of opinion. Right or wrong I'd never be proud of someone acting like that
Originally Posted by PorkchopExpress:
“Beyond belief really. And Gemma trying to stick her oar in.
These people are very messed up.
Partridge is heading for pariah status though, which is nice.”
“Beyond belief really. And Gemma trying to stick her oar in.
These people are very messed up.
Partridge is heading for pariah status though, which is nice.”
I think that somebody predicted that this would happen when the house started to turn on John. And whoever it was appears to be right.
I'm already seeing people start to rail against Gemma and be more supportive of John now that he's on the back foot.
Didnt she remember an awful lot for someone supposedly drunk.... she did stick to her convictions and was right on some.. but that childish tantrum performance wasnt called for..
I doubt she sees anything wrong with her behaviour because she appears to be a self entitled brat who thinks the world revolves around her and that it's her God given right to behave exactly how she likes and others just have to accept it.
She strikes me as the sort of girl who grew up thinking she was better than anyone else and has been over indulged
She strikes me as the sort of girl who grew up thinking she was better than anyone else and has been over indulged
Originally Posted by Blondie X:
“I doubt she sees anything wrong with her behaviour because she appears to be a self entitled brat who thinks the world revolves around her and that it's her God given right to behave exactly how she likes and others just have to accept it.
She strikes me as the sort of girl who grew up thinking she was better than anyone else and has been over indulged”
“I doubt she sees anything wrong with her behaviour because she appears to be a self entitled brat who thinks the world revolves around her and that it's her God given right to behave exactly how she likes and others just have to accept it.
She strikes me as the sort of girl who grew up thinking she was better than anyone else and has been over indulged”
well she ll have to wake up to reality ...shes nothing special and a horrible girl.
Originally Posted by rachybark:
“Its nothing to do with what she said. Its about the foulmounthed crazy aggressive deranged way she behaved when she said it and i worry about anyone who thinks that that sort of behaviour is acceptable”
“Its nothing to do with what she said. Its about the foulmounthed crazy aggressive deranged way she behaved when she said it and i worry about anyone who thinks that that sort of behaviour is acceptable”
Me too- but nothing is ever her fault is it? It's a growing trend these days sadly.
Originally Posted by lee_mccleary:
“Why should she be sorry?”
“Why should she be sorry?”
That attitude is exactly what is wrong with society these days!
Originally Posted by JVS:
“Don't take BB's bollocking too seriously, they loved Megan's outburst as much as many of us did. She made yesterday's show.”
“Don't take BB's bollocking too seriously, they loved Megan's outburst as much as many of us did. She made yesterday's show.”
It's the whole reason she is there. She behaved like it frequently on ex on the beach.
Originally Posted by moonlily:
“Me too- but nothing is ever her fault is it? It's a growing trend these days sadly.”
“Me too- but nothing is ever her fault is it? It's a growing trend these days sadly.”
Quite.
Even the grudging apology she did give she wasn't accepting responsibility for her actions.
She didn't know Ghetto could be perceived as racist (and unlike 'plate of chicken' i don't see how anybody couldn't see the possible implications of that one) so as she didn't know, it's not her fault.
She 'didn't mean' to hit the camera or be rude to BB but she was drunk and other people had wound her up so it's not her fault.
The things she didn't apologise for, her reasoning appeared to be.
Tiffany had no usiness butting in when she wasn't talking to her so it was fine to be aggressive, screaming, shouting, leabing over her bed. If she's just stayed quiet, it wouldn't have happened.
She had a right to say what she wanted to and about John. If he hadn't answered back (questioning her assertion that she cleans up 'his shit) I guess she wouldn't have lost her temper so not her fault.
Basically, she is not t blame for her reactions, no matter how aggressive and appalling, as "she doesn't like being treated like shit" and won't take it.
Of course, nobody should have to put up with "being treated like shit" but the fact is she wasn't being, certainly no more than any other housemate but she seems to permenantly think she deserves more than others and there are ways of dealing with injustice.
She does come across as a spoilt little brat. Probably originally over indulged by her parents, and more recently men who fall for the looks.
I find so many people admiring her outburst and not seeing that she has anything to say sorry quite depressing for the sake of humanity.
She can apologise for the way she behaved, accepting responsibility for her own anger issues and choosing to drink when she knew she was close to boiling point, without taking back what she was actually trying to say about John.
She wasn't that drunk , considering she recalled everything clearly and was able to explain very succinctly to tiffers exactly why she went off on one at john and then her .
Yes her tantrum was ott , but john is a control freak who shuts down anyone who tries to make decisions or sort out an issue because he has appointed himself as mediator in charge of everything that needs sorted out .
It was quite simple really , megan told him that if he wanted steph telt off he should do it himself , never mind asking her (megan) to do it or waiting to assemble a house meeting next day . Which was correct, but control freak john wanted the meeting so he could yammer on and take charge and look like perfect mr problem solver . Yet when christopher tried to arrange a house meeting for tiffers to explain davidgate and get it sorted out john slapped christopher down in a most unnecessary and nasty dismissive way.Including the little dig re chicken . Fgs , chris was trying to sort it out before it went even further and before bed time , but no, john wasn't having that because that sort of thing is his territory, mr bossy boots witch finder in chief .
Same with darren, bossy ass telling him how to live his life just because he was smoking a lot during a stressful day .
Shut up john .
Yes her tantrum was ott , but john is a control freak who shuts down anyone who tries to make decisions or sort out an issue because he has appointed himself as mediator in charge of everything that needs sorted out .
It was quite simple really , megan told him that if he wanted steph telt off he should do it himself , never mind asking her (megan) to do it or waiting to assemble a house meeting next day . Which was correct, but control freak john wanted the meeting so he could yammer on and take charge and look like perfect mr problem solver . Yet when christopher tried to arrange a house meeting for tiffers to explain davidgate and get it sorted out john slapped christopher down in a most unnecessary and nasty dismissive way.Including the little dig re chicken . Fgs , chris was trying to sort it out before it went even further and before bed time , but no, john wasn't having that because that sort of thing is his territory, mr bossy boots witch finder in chief .
Same with darren, bossy ass telling him how to live his life just because he was smoking a lot during a stressful day .
Shut up john .
Originally Posted by meadows76:
“What a ridiculous thing to say. I have been drunk hundreds of times in my life and not once have I forgotten what happened”
“What a ridiculous thing to say. I have been drunk hundreds of times in my life and not once have I forgotten what happened”
Funny how she remembered the not-too-bad things that happened but forgot all the really bad ones. What makes me think she is lying about forgetting is that she can't remember saying certain things, yet remembers clearly what led up to her saying them, and she remembers exactly what the others said and did.
Originally Posted by aurichie:
“So proud of Megan for standing up to the bullies and standing her ground today. She's a BB legend already.”
“So proud of Megan for standing up to the bullies and standing her ground today. She's a BB legend already.”
She will be back in the gutter soon enough. Right legend is our Megan
What that girl needs is a smacked bottom - pity her parents didn't take her in hand as a child. I bet they're just so proud of their little girl 'standing up for herself and telling it like it is'. What an absolute horror.
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