What if roles were changed and jeremy was the one with a girlfriend , every women who watches bb would be going mad calling him a two timing sleeze in another womens bed cuddling and kissing he would get slaughtered everywhere bit on the side would have a field day but because its a women its fine they are only 'mates' giving each other cuddles at night and kissing its fine nothing to worry about move on here people

IT would still be Stephanie's fault

Colour me cynical but I think they're both game playing and it's a contrived 3 way love triangle. The way Steff keeps invoking the name of her boyfriend at every opportunity, 'you'll ruin my relationship, Big Brother,' 'I just want to see, Sam,' was another one and after she'd only been in the house 5mins.
Let's face it, her and Jeremy don't bring much else to the house without this, will they won't they, teaser every flipping night.

No one is sticking up for Stephanie or excusing her behaviour though, she's getting a load of flack (and rightly so, IMO) for it.

If she was a guy the woman would still be getting the blame, there'd be cries of homewrecker all over the place.

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