I've met John about 25 times, so many I've lost count, at stage doors and also for much longer after shows. First of all, based on the man I've met, he is definitely being himself. He is generous, wears his heart on his sleeve, is emotional, open, funny, kind, positive and has a fantastic sense of humour.
I think he's behaved with great class & restraint in the face of wailing hysterical girls. I think it's a great shame that CBB is now only like a TOWIE show, and has gone to the lowest common denominator. John would have had so many interesting things to talk about, if the editing was better.
So what if he is a natural leader, and is tidy? He hasn't prevented anyone from doing anything, he is forthright, honest, and I wish we could see more of his fun-loving side, like we have in the lip sync battle & the gunge task!
If he is bothered, all that would make him is a normal human being, and if he isn't that much, then it's hardly surprising considering why he's in there, to raise money for his Mum's care. Those who sneer, hang your heads, hope it never happens in your family.
He is the most mature of all the housemates, and I think he's been brilliant. 😊