Why was it okay with Chantelle and Preston?
In that CBB BB themselves appeared to be actually encouraging it.
In that CBB BB themselves appeared to be actually encouraging it.
why won't they let stephanie cheat on her bf in peace
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Originally Posted by fjif:
“Helen Adams anyone? She came in leaving a long standing boyfriend at home and proceeded to fall for Paul Clarke in the house. I remember the GBP loving their romance and it always struck me as strange how little regard was given to her boyfriend's feelings.”
“Helen Adams anyone? She came in leaving a long standing boyfriend at home and proceeded to fall for Paul Clarke in the house. I remember the GBP loving their romance and it always struck me as strange how little regard was given to her boyfriend's feelings.”
That's a different scenario though. It was a regular BB and they were in there for weeks as things developed.
The thing I don't quite get re Steph is, she hugs Jeremy at every opportunity, gets into bed with him, kisses him and has long and meaningful chats with him. Yet, she seems to think it is a throwaway line from Danielle that her BF is going to notice!
Originally Posted by patsylimerick:
“Apparently he's been outed on Twitter for cheating on her; so it wasn't much of a relationship anyway - they only know each other for eight months ffs.”
“Apparently he's been outed on Twitter for cheating on her; so it wasn't much of a relationship anyway - they only know each other for eight months ffs.”
1/ Was that before or after she's been practically riding Jeremy in full view of the nation?
2/ I don't get this 'only eight months' reasoning? Is there a memo as to when in a relationship's timeline it's appropriate or not to cheat (or flirt with cheating) because I don't think I got it. Surely cheating is more forgivable (if it is at all) much later on in a relationship once the initial honeymoon rush has worn off.
Originally Posted by celtic star:
“If she cheated in peace then she'd be left in peace .
It the dramatic worrying and crying over her boyfriend whilst cheating that would piss me off if i was living with her .She makes it everyones business .
If she just did her thing and quietly went about her cheating with no BS then i wouldnt bat an eyelid , it really would be none of my business”
“If she cheated in peace then she'd be left in peace .
It the dramatic worrying and crying over her boyfriend whilst cheating that would piss me off if i was living with her .She makes it everyones business .
If she just did her thing and quietly went about her cheating with no BS then i wouldnt bat an eyelid , it really would be none of my business”
Indeed. That's it really, not that she's doing what she's doing - it happens time and again, it's not right but it happens. It's that she's gone in there making a big thing of her love for her boyfriend on the outside, meanwhile she's jumping into bed with another bloke, then guilt strikes and she heads off to the DR to say she wants to leave and that BB are setting her up, blaming everybody but herself for her own actions.
What she needs to do is, as us hip and cool people say
, own it. Take responsibility, admit she fancies Jeremy and that she would like to pursue that. Then she could, if she were mature enough, stop crawling over him for the next few days, weeks (however long she's in there) and they could wait and see if they are interested in each other outside of the house.But nope, she wants to pretend she's clinging to her outside relationship and also pursue one inside the house, all the while denying that she's doing exactly that and that it's all everybody else's fault.
That is, in my opinion, what's annoying us and her fellow housemates. Guilt is what's getting to Stephanie!
Originally Posted by patsylimerick:
“That's fair enough.
I just think the moralising from stars of TOWIE and Geordie Shore is beyond ridiculous.”
“That's fair enough.
I just think the moralising from stars of TOWIE and Geordie Shore is beyond ridiculous.”
Absolutely - things are seriously wrong in the world of zelebrity when Gemma Collins is help up as the purveyor of high morality
Originally Posted by fjif:
“Helen Adams anyone? She came in leaving a long standing boyfriend at home and proceeded to fall for Paul Clarke in the house. I remember the GBP loving their romance and it always struck me as strange how little regard was given to her boyfriend's feelings.”
“Helen Adams anyone? She came in leaving a long standing boyfriend at home and proceeded to fall for Paul Clarke in the house. I remember the GBP loving their romance and it always struck me as strange how little regard was given to her boyfriend's feelings.”
Did Helen and Paul ever do anything more than blink?
(inside the house)
Originally Posted by mmpfb:
“1/ Was that before or after she's been practically riding Jeremy in full view of the nation?
2/ I don't get this 'only eight months' reasoning? Is there a memo as to when in a relationship's timeline it's appropriate or not to cheat (or flirt with cheating) because I don't think I got it. Surely cheating is more forgivable (if it is at all) much later on in a relationship once the initial honeymoon rush has worn off.”
“1/ Was that before or after she's been practically riding Jeremy in full view of the nation?
2/ I don't get this 'only eight months' reasoning? Is there a memo as to when in a relationship's timeline it's appropriate or not to cheat (or flirt with cheating) because I don't think I got it. Surely cheating is more forgivable (if it is at all) much later on in a relationship once the initial honeymoon rush has worn off.”
cheating is cheating
if you're in a relationship however the length of it
i read they were planning on getting married this year
this is more than teething problems if Stephanie goes on CBB and jumps on a single guy in there when she knows the BF can see it ,
very cruel ,
shame he can't do it to her on CBB too, to get taste of her own medicine
Originally Posted by soozie:
“Leave her in peace to cheat I agree. But its Stephanie declaring love for her boyfriend and crying then snuggling under the duvet for a bit of how's your father, then crying again. If she just shut up about her apperantly outside love squeeze then nobody would have anything to say. Steph is her own enemy.”
“Leave her in peace to cheat I agree. But its Stephanie declaring love for her boyfriend and crying then snuggling under the duvet for a bit of how's your father, then crying again. If she just shut up about her apperantly outside love squeeze then nobody would have anything to say. Steph is her own enemy.”
Much as I agree with you, essentially, it is rather sad that in this day and age we are all saying leave her in peace to cheat! It doesn't say much for our moral code, let alone hers!
Perhaps we think that people in the world of zelebrity should be allowed to do things that we ourselves would more than be upset about, or that we want them to do what we wouldn't have the neck to do so that we can then point and say how terrible these people are, us ordinary folk are so much better. We do like to build people up and then knock them down though.
One thing I do think though - Stephanie's going to regret ever going on this show, in my humble opinion. Sure she'll get her fee, but she came onto the show for much more than a fee. She was sacked, as far as I know, from Hollyoaks and has a career, presumably, that she'd like to remain in but a reputation that may be putting people off from hiring her.
I thought that her purpose on going onto CBB was to be seen differently. She certainly is being seen differently, but perhaps not the different she had in mind!
Originally Posted by muggins14:
“Much as I agree with you, essentially, it is rather sad that in this day and age we are all saying leave her in peace to cheat! It doesn't say much for our moral code, let alone hers!
Perhaps we think that people in the world of zelebrity should be allowed to do things that we ourselves would more than be upset about, or that we want them to do what we wouldn't have the neck to do so that we can then point and say how terrible these people are, us ordinary folk are so much better. We do like to build people up and then knock them down though.
One thing I do think though - Stephanie's going to regret ever going on this show, in my humble opinion. Sure she'll get her fee, but she came onto the show for much more than a fee. She was sacked, as far as I know, from Hollyoaks and has a career, presumably, that she'd like to remain in but a reputation that may be putting people off from hiring her.
I thought that her purpose on going onto CBB was to be seen differently. She certainly is being seen differently, but perhaps not the different she had in mind!”
“Much as I agree with you, essentially, it is rather sad that in this day and age we are all saying leave her in peace to cheat! It doesn't say much for our moral code, let alone hers!
Perhaps we think that people in the world of zelebrity should be allowed to do things that we ourselves would more than be upset about, or that we want them to do what we wouldn't have the neck to do so that we can then point and say how terrible these people are, us ordinary folk are so much better. We do like to build people up and then knock them down though.
One thing I do think though - Stephanie's going to regret ever going on this show, in my humble opinion. Sure she'll get her fee, but she came onto the show for much more than a fee. She was sacked, as far as I know, from Hollyoaks and has a career, presumably, that she'd like to remain in but a reputation that may be putting people off from hiring her.
I thought that her purpose on going onto CBB was to be seen differently. She certainly is being seen differently, but perhaps not the different she had in mind!”
they're two consenting adults fgs
they can do what they like
if Stephanie doesn't think that much of her BF , then she can get with someone who she may click with more
the others are being bit interferring,they can tell her they don't approve and tell him to back off all they like, it's really none of their business, unless they personally KNOW the BF then they'd have trouble holding back from cursing Stephanie
They may have had problems for all we know before Stephanie went into the house, they're not married, no children involved, so let Stephanie make her own bed , it's far better viewing for us !
Originally Posted by jack_blair:
“they're two consenting adults fgs
they can do what they like
if Stephanie doesn't think that much of her BF , then she can get with someone who she may click with more
the others are being bit interferring,they can tell her they don't approve and tell him to back off all they like, it's really none of their business, unless they personally KNOW the BF then they'd have trouble holding back from cursing Stephanie
They may have had problems for all we know before Stephanie went into the house, they're not married, no children involved, so let Stephanie make her own bed , it's far better viewing for us !”
“they're two consenting adults fgs
they can do what they like
if Stephanie doesn't think that much of her BF , then she can get with someone who she may click with more
the others are being bit interferring,they can tell her they don't approve and tell him to back off all they like, it's really none of their business, unless they personally KNOW the BF then they'd have trouble holding back from cursing Stephanie
They may have had problems for all we know before Stephanie went into the house, they're not married, no children involved, so let Stephanie make her own bed , it's far better viewing for us !”
Of course it is!
On the other hand, it's a Big Brother house, you're doing what you're doing in front of 14 or so other people - does she think they aren't going to voice or have an opinion? That'd be a bit naive, considering all of the housemates offer their opinions (including Stephanie) on what goes on in the house, that's what the show is all about.
I was simply discussing a point of view and sharing an opinion on a discussion forum, no need to be quite so forceful fgs
Originally Posted by muggins14:
“Of course it is!
On the other hand, it's a Big Brother house, you're doing what you're doing in front of 14 or so other people - does she think they aren't going to voice or have an opinion? That'd be a bit naive, considering all of the housemates offer their opinions (including Stephanie) on what goes on in the house, that's what the show is all about.
I was simply discussing a point of view and sharing an opinion on a discussion forum, no need to be quite so forceful fgs”
“Of course it is!
On the other hand, it's a Big Brother house, you're doing what you're doing in front of 14 or so other people - does she think they aren't going to voice or have an opinion? That'd be a bit naive, considering all of the housemates offer their opinions (including Stephanie) on what goes on in the house, that's what the show is all about.
I was simply discussing a point of view and sharing an opinion on a discussion forum, no need to be quite so forceful fgs
”
she didn't care what her boyfriend might think of what she was doing
she certainly wasn't going to care what the HMs thought
Not being forceful (the fgs wasn't aimed at you specifically it was general view)
i was wondering why it took so long for them to say it to Stephanie and Jeremy in the same room !
It was Kristina who aimed her criticism directly at Jeremy though , none of the others did, apart from David Gest whose had few chats with Jeremy and he's ignored everything he's said
Originally Posted by jack_blair:
“they're two consenting adults fgs
they can do what they like
if Stephanie doesn't think that much of her BF , then she can get with someone who she may click with more
the others are being bit interferring,they can tell her they don't approve and tell him to back off all they like, it's really none of their business, unless they personally KNOW the BF then they'd have trouble holding back from cursing Stephanie
They may have had problems for all we know before Stephanie went into the house, they're not married, no children involved, so let Stephanie make her own bed , it's far better viewing for us !”
“they're two consenting adults fgs
they can do what they like
if Stephanie doesn't think that much of her BF , then she can get with someone who she may click with more
the others are being bit interferring,they can tell her they don't approve and tell him to back off all they like, it's really none of their business, unless they personally KNOW the BF then they'd have trouble holding back from cursing Stephanie
They may have had problems for all we know before Stephanie went into the house, they're not married, no children involved, so let Stephanie make her own bed , it's far better viewing for us !”
Love this post spot on ^^^^^
Essentially it's none of their business, it's between Steph and her bf, none of them know him from Adam and should keep out of it. Getting into verbal confrontations with her about how she as an adult conducts her private life is quite ridiculous.
Originally Posted by mmpfb:
“1/ Was that before or after she's been practically riding Jeremy in full view of the nation?
2/ I don't get this 'only eight months' reasoning? Is there a memo as to when in a relationship's timeline it's appropriate or not to cheat (or flirt with cheating) because I don't think I got it. Surely cheating is more forgivable (if it is at all) much later on in a relationship once the initial honeymoon rush has worn off.”
“1/ Was that before or after she's been practically riding Jeremy in full view of the nation?
2/ I don't get this 'only eight months' reasoning? Is there a memo as to when in a relationship's timeline it's appropriate or not to cheat (or flirt with cheating) because I don't think I got it. Surely cheating is more forgivable (if it is at all) much later on in a relationship once the initial honeymoon rush has worn off.”
Unfortunately cheating seems common place these days, people are all doing it at the drop of a hat, texting, sexting, snapchatting, one nighters. I dunno why people bother with the charade of relationships.
Originally Posted by LittleEgg:
“Has anyone actually witness the douchebag that is her boyfriend sam? He was on the TV show first dates and behaved like someone i can imagine any woman wanting to drop like a sack of spuds. Boring, arrogant, self obsessed...did i mention boring?
Its like for like with jeremy, but at least he has some crack and a pulse.
The others are only bothered because they don't have their own narrative. Gemma is just a stirring nasty piece of work like she always has been.”
“Has anyone actually witness the douchebag that is her boyfriend sam? He was on the TV show first dates and behaved like someone i can imagine any woman wanting to drop like a sack of spuds. Boring, arrogant, self obsessed...did i mention boring?
Its like for like with jeremy, but at least he has some crack and a pulse.
The others are only bothered because they don't have their own narrative. Gemma is just a stirring nasty piece of work like she always has been.”
I thought her boyfriend came across ok on first dates the two didn't seem to have much in common a very awkward date no chemistry at all. Not suprised they split the bill.
I think it's safe at this stage to think Steph boyfriend isn't going to be sticking around. Maybe he'll enter CBB and dump her on tv or call her out for how she's acting. Then she'll be running to Sam again or Jeremy. I don't know who Stephanie likes at this stage one minute she's "crying" about loving Sam and missing him. The next she's telling Jeremy she's in love with him after 10 days. No wonder all the housemates are getting sick of how Steph is behaving .
To be honest while I don't like Stephanie I am sick of them all interfering, it's up to Stephanie and Jeremy what they do. BB should just put them in the secret house this Friday and let them get on with it.
Originally Posted by curvybabes:
“To be honest while I don't like Stephanie I am sick of them all interfering, it's up to Stephanie and Jeremy what they do. BB should just put them in the secret house this Friday and let them get on with it.”
“To be honest while I don't like Stephanie I am sick of them all interfering, it's up to Stephanie and Jeremy what they do. BB should just put them in the secret house this Friday and let them get on with it.”
But would they be interfering if Steph herself didn't keep banging on about her boyfriend, asking advice from HMs regarding how her antics with Jetemy might look even to the point of specifically requesting that someone tell her if they think she is going too far?
I would speculate that Steph & boyfriend already agreed to secretly split & for her to have a showmance before she went in so they could both garner a lot of attention & publicity but I don't think she is bright enough to think that far ahead. I truly think that she does not understand that the nocturnal bed visits are filmed & broadcast and that the microphones pick up whispers and other sounds.
She's annoying enough for an hour a day going on about it, imagine having to put up with her incessant drivel all day and night. FGS either get it on or don't. If she didn't make such a deal of it neither would the others.
Originally Posted by mysty211:
“I thought her boyfriend came across ok on first dates the two didn't seem to have much in common a very awkward date no chemistry at all. Not suprised they split the bill.
I think it's safe at this stage to think Steph boyfriend isn't going to be sticking around. Maybe he'll enter CBB and dump her on tv or call her out for how she's acting. Then she'll be running to Sam again or Jeremy. I don't know who Stephanie likes at this stage one minute she's "crying" about loving Sam and missing him. The next she's telling Jeremy she's in love with him after 10 days. No wonder all the housemates are getting sick of how Steph is behaving .”
“I thought her boyfriend came across ok on first dates the two didn't seem to have much in common a very awkward date no chemistry at all. Not suprised they split the bill.
I think it's safe at this stage to think Steph boyfriend isn't going to be sticking around. Maybe he'll enter CBB and dump her on tv or call her out for how she's acting. Then she'll be running to Sam again or Jeremy. I don't know who Stephanie likes at this stage one minute she's "crying" about loving Sam and missing him. The next she's telling Jeremy she's in love with him after 10 days. No wonder all the housemates are getting sick of how Steph is behaving .”
Perhaps they'll all leap into bed together - CBB first threesome.
Originally Posted by Eurostar:
“Essentially it's none of their business, it's between Steph and her bf, none of them know him from Adam and should keep out of it. Getting into verbal confrontations with her about how she as an adult conducts her private life is quite ridiculous.”
“Essentially it's none of their business, it's between Steph and her bf, none of them know him from Adam and should keep out of it. Getting into verbal confrontations with her about how she as an adult conducts her private life is quite ridiculous.”
How can it be between her and her BF when
A, it clearly concerns Jeremy
B, it's being played out on national tv,
C, she is making it the business of the people living in close proximity to her by behaving in an irrational way because of it and asking for advice.
As for saying you should not express an opinion about how somebody conducts themselves, well that is the ridiculous thing.
Originally Posted by curvybabes:
“To be honest while I don't like Stephanie I am sick of them all interfering, it's up to Stephanie and Jeremy what they do. BB should just put them in the secret house this Friday and let them get on with it.”
“To be honest while I don't like Stephanie I am sick of them all interfering, it's up to Stephanie and Jeremy what they do. BB should just put them in the secret house this Friday and let them get on with it.”
What a stupid idea. It's not a knocking shop love.
I think that is a creepy thing to suggest, like one wants to see them bonking in special little boudoir
Originally Posted by jack_blair:
“they're two consenting adults fgs
they can do what they like
if Stephanie doesn't think that much of her BF , then she can get with someone who she may click with more
the others are being bit interferring,they can tell her they don't approve and tell him to back off all they like, it's really none of their business, unless they personally KNOW the BF then they'd have trouble holding back from cursing Stephanie
They may have had problems for all we know before Stephanie went into the house, they're not married, no children involved, so let Stephanie make her own bed , it's far better viewing for us !”
“they're two consenting adults fgs
they can do what they like
if Stephanie doesn't think that much of her BF , then she can get with someone who she may click with more
the others are being bit interferring,they can tell her they don't approve and tell him to back off all they like, it's really none of their business, unless they personally KNOW the BF then they'd have trouble holding back from cursing Stephanie
They may have had problems for all we know before Stephanie went into the house, they're not married, no children involved, so let Stephanie make her own bed , it's far better viewing for us !”
What do you mean, if she doesn't think too much of her boyfriend?
She's been going on about him and how much she loves him since day 1
If she did meet somebody she liked in the house, it wouldn't be hard to behave with a tiny shred of dignity, maintain a nice friendship for a couple of weeks and then see How you got in out of the house, while quietly and respectfully ending your relationship with the former BF.
Aww how unfair just leave her to it miss piggy Collins. On a serious note don't feel sorry for her bf at all,I remember him on first dates and wasn't impressed. I can see why they're together.🙄🙄
For god sake we have Kristini who invented the word cheating. Darren who went to town cheating..and Id bet a few more in there too... but wasnt it Gemma who fancied the Irhs boy early on... isnt it that shes mad about and not them getting it on... I couldnt give a flying what game Stephs playing.. all I know that it was a big big bore last night.. Who cares what shes up to ..She a player...tne boremance is just that..
Originally Posted by celtic star:
“If she cheated in peace then she'd be left in peace .
It the dramatic worrying and crying over her boyfriend whilst cheating that would piss me off if i was living with her .She makes it everyones business .
If she just did her thing and quietly went about her cheating with no BS then i wouldnt bat an eyelid , it really would be none of my business”
“If she cheated in peace then she'd be left in peace .
It the dramatic worrying and crying over her boyfriend whilst cheating that would piss me off if i was living with her .She makes it everyones business .
If she just did her thing and quietly went about her cheating with no BS then i wouldnt bat an eyelid , it really would be none of my business”
This is it exactly...I don't think anyone would be nearly so riled up if she just shut up and got on with it, but no. She's making a full meal out of it and bringing everyone into it with her. The reason she kicked off so much about Gemma is because she knows how absolutely right she is.
And what's with the false eyelashes? Why do they look like plastic insect toys on her eyes????
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