Originally Posted by humdrummer:
“Did you know your head at her age? Or - should you be younger, could you say - without a shadow of a doubt, that you know your own heart 100% right now..?
Isn't this the era where we all want fame, fortune and notoriety..? Isn't this the era where we all throw consequences away in a deal with the media devil? The rewards - when you get it right - are beyond belief!
When you get it wrong - god help you.
Do you use Instagram/FB/Social Media...because if you do - YOU HAVE BEEN JUDGED!
'She's not the faithful type'. I would hope not at her age because - when it matters, when she's having children etc. I would hope she was assured and certain enough in her choice TO be the faithful type.
I am almost loath to pull this card but, I can't help but think there is a smattering of misogyny about this. She has shown she is compromised and voiced this - apparently she's a 'whingeing, crying, whore-bag' (not my words, and ladies...you should think before you say this stuff about a fellow girl).
I would bet my life if it was a bloke he would be 'conflicted, confused, struggling...'
See my drift..? How can anyone apply the laws of commitment to a 22 year old - have you all forgotten (or alternatively, are you all so young) that you can not SEE in any way shape or form how this instance could have come about..?
I'm on my own here..?
Good-o.”
she's supposed to be planning to marry this BF of hers this year btw
she's 22, probably nearly 23 now
she's not 16
If the woman wasn't so immature she'd have stayed clear of Jeremy for his sake as well as her own self respect and for her BF on the outside. If she wasn't sure of her own mind then she shouldn't keep saying she loves her BF, as that's obvious crap
yes, I knew my own mind at 22,
I knew what being unfaithful was
I wasn't on a reality tv show with cameras watching me 24/7 either - which makes what she's doing worse as the HMs tend to curb their behaviour and are more conscious of what they say and do , or try to be.
Stephanie's been going out with this BF for 8 months,she hadn't only just met him
Standards and morals apply at any age
but her age is no excuse, she's old enough to know what she's doing and she's playing both guys imo.
Are you saying that at 22 she shouldn't have to be faithful ? you have different standard of acceptable behaviour then , one that gives license to play with other peoples emotions and lives.
If she can't be faithful, then she should be single for a while until she feels she can be.
Stephanies own words to Jeremy were: IM IN LOVE WITH THE IDEA OF BEING IN LOVE
Alarm bells should ring , as she doesn't really love the BF if that's how she feels
she likes being in a relationship with someone,but it's not same as being in love.