Originally Posted by An Thropologist:
“Me too. I would have to be seriously incapacitated to allow even those close to me to wash my smalls. When I am in a communal living situation ( like a family holiday or when I used to go hiking) I take a carrier bag and my undies go straight into the bag when they come off and stay there until i wash them.”
We have these great bags from Poundland, cloth laundry bags that you can fold into a suitcase - Jr uses one of those when she goes to respite, comes home and empties it into the laundry basket.
I imagine, as others have said, Steph's items were in a pile on the floor. Either way, rather than somebody picking them up, perhaps somebody should have had the balls to actually go and tell her to pick her stuff up. People seem to have been saying it a lot, but I don't see them saying it TO her directly, just to others about her.
What this house needs is house meetings, sit down and tell her, all of them, that they want her to pick up her dirty clothing (whatever the item). Isn't that what started Megan's mega-rant off, that people were telling her or each other about Stephanie's untidiness, rather than telling Stephanie herself? Seems they still aren't.