Public infidelity for one.

And mine.

Daniella and Gemma have moved way beyond their irritation at the Jezza situation. Stephanie is being bullied.

What is your definition of 'infidelity'?

You have sex with a boyfriend and then decide you would rather have sex with a different person, do you need a court order?

How does it work?


Maggie

I don't like Steph. she's a messy bugger that only appears to think about herself.

But. The knicker thing made me cringe. If that was me, and it had been a pair of my kecks, I think I'd have died of embarrassment. I'd never show my face again. Bloody awful thing to do, and I really felt for her.
She took it miles better than I would have.

The guys did overreact, with the whole immature pigeon shit stuff, it wasn't needed but I don't see how Dani was bullying. You live in house with people you don't get on with or people who are immature and can't keep their dirty pants in check and disrespect other peoples clothes you might want to let off steam. I hate bullying and have experienced it myself, but if talking about someone is bullying then everyone of them in the show is a bully including Stef. Stef has made some pretty horrible comments about people too. It seemed like she wanted a way to get some sympathy from the viewers and accusing people of bullying was the answer.

I do think they shouldn't have tried to humiliate her, but no one knew who's pants they were when they were found (apart from Gemma being ruled out on size ) so it wasn't some concerted effort to single her out. I would not be happy living with someone who couldn't keep their soiled clothes to themselves.

Yep, they didn't know who the knickers belonged too until later. As you said only Gemma could be ruled out.

So if a bullying victim laughs (possibly due to awkwardness) then it isn't bullying?? And she was probably just trying to make an excuse since she realised everyone was laughing at her. I think the term "bullying" is very overused when it comes to BB but in this case it was nothing but bullying.

its not bullying! i would have sympathy if it was taken form her bed or laundry basket but it was left lying in the bathroom. she has consistently left her nickers lying everywhere i have no sympathy maybe next time she wont leave them lying around

No the right thing to do in that situation was to confront her since they knew all of the other clothes belonged to her. Talking about it, showing disgust and laughing about how awful it is isn't exactly pleasant considering someone knows that the knickers are theirs. It's malicious - end of.

but shes been doing this all the time! they came in and asked and she said no. so she lied. people have told her to stop leaving her clothes around so im not surprised by their reaction the girl never seems to listen so unfortunately you must learn the hard way

She'd already been confronted several times about leaving her dirty knickers about. If she didn't want it to continue she could have just stopped doing it.

Instead, as usual, she continued doing it and has deflected blame onto those talking about it. Same thing she did over Jez and her situation and about her quarrel with Gemma and Daniella.

She cheats on her boyfriend - Gemma's fault for discussing it

She calls Gemma names and makes bitchy comments comtinually - Gemna and Daniel are bullies for complaining about it

She scatters her knickers all over - John exposes it - Gemna and Daniellas fault for laughing about it

The thinking is bizarre

That was horrible to watch, I know she shouldn't have left them lying around but still having them all laughing and euuwing at her like 12 yr old girls was unnecessary as was displaying on the table. I was impressed by the usually awful Jeremy, he was a good friend to her there.

I'm sure Steph is horribly annoying to live with, she's totally hyper, slovenly and never knows when to STFU but nobody deserves that beamed to the nation.

She had only known her five minutes! Maybe the more she saw the less keen she was. I think they are being unkind but Stephen does strike me as very selfish and inconsiderate. But of course she she is only 22 and it is everyone else's fault!

Stone her!

It's not the fact that she has been snogging another bloke, I don't really give a monkey's if she wants to two time her boyfriend publically, it's the constant wailing about how much she loves her boyfriend then straight into Jeremy's arms that gets rather wearing.

Think the knicker thing went too far but she has been told about leaving her dirty underwear lying around. Then she said that she had 'problems down there", followed by the facrpt that she was "horny" and "moist". She really doesn't help herself and I think iher time in the house will not be good for her career.

Have you even been watching? all of them have been complaining for weeks about Steph leaving her dirty knickers on the floor.

Steph was sacked from Hollyoaks and its worth noting none of the cast have a nice word to say about her.

I'm not sure i would call it Bullying but i well say it that the group setting out to humiliate Steph (whom i don't like) is worse then the treatment Gary and other received. And i think you will all recall how the forum was filled with threads about how Gary was Bullied.

I think far to many people make judgements based on their feelings of the people involved and not the events that occured.

sooo... does that mean it isn't bullying because she is unliked? or does it mean its ok to bully her because she is unliked?

Obviously she doesn't help herself and she's given them reasons to dislike her, but they're clearly picking on her now as far as I'm concerned.

Beyond the problems she's caused for herself, she's the only one standing up to Gemma, and all the toadies can't have that.

I agree. I don't much like Steph, and have said so on these forums. But how she was treated over that was despicable. And I'm fairly certain that the guys had a pretty good idea of whose knickers they were (because of her slovenly ways, because they'd been complaining about her leaving clothes lying around for days, and because it seems that the other clothes in that pile belonged to her). I'm pretty certain that had John Partridge thought there was a chance those knickers belonged to one of the other females he wouldn't have made the show of it that he did. So yes, it was getting into the realms of bullying behaviour imo.

I think the reason that Danielle (who says that she's tough) was crying was because she thought she had maybe behaved not as well as she should over it, and was worried to come out to the label 'bully' (which I don't think she is by the way, but she certainly could have behaved more empathetically there.)

It's when they found out that the bullying really started.
The 'naming and shaming' was bad enough in itself, but once the person was named it was a free for all as far as the girls were concerned.

Here we go again 😴😴😴😴😴😴

steph gives as good as she gets and says just as much hurtful things to others!!!

And why shouldnt she, one to one anyone can handle but two or more onto one is bullying.