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In answer to the title of the thread...
When she wakes up? |
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She is deeply unhappy with herself. All the bravado and faux beauty is to compensate for the fact that she knows she is a train wreck of a person.
When someone does something that could remotely, even slightly expose her imperfections she goes on the offensive, Offence isn't just her best form of defence, its her ONLY form of defence, because despite her bigging herself up as this wonderful person who virtually sees herself as flawless royalty, the truth is she actually sees herself as indefensible. I think this is true for a lot of bullies. |
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she's deluded, i really think she sees herself as some kind of major star. i laugh at her ''i tell it like it is'' crap. her constant use of ''do you know what i mean though'' just screams of insecurity and the need for others approval.
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[b][b] I've realised it's her body language - the pointing and directing her arms at people and standing up and standing over them or pointedly walking towards them when they say the slightest thing she takes offence to (almost everything).
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Saying "were a team" to all the other HM's apart from Steph and Jeremy. Taking Chris into the toilet for a talking down. Blocking Steph out of the way. Showing off about her clothes. The sound of her voice when talking to those she bullies. The way she gets the person who would stand up against her (Tiff) onside. Shall I go on?
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She stands over her victim gives them that look from her dead eyes and speaks in a very intimidating and threatening manner.
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If she is so disliked, why is she still in there?
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She stands over her victim gives them that look from her dead eyes and speaks in a very intimidating and threatening manner.
I see tears about to form, glazed in remorse and sadness. The young lady will have qualities that could shine, but she needs to revise herself and be true to herself. I wish her luck. |
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Her eyes don't appear dead to me.
I see tears about to form, glazed in remorse and sadness. The young lady will have qualities that could shine, but she needs to revise herself and be true to herself. I wish her luck. |
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She is deeply unhappy with herself. All the bravado and faux beauty is to compensate for the fact that she knows she is a train wreck of a person.
When someone does something that could remotely, even slightly expose her imperfections she goes on the offensive, Offence isn't just her best form of defence, its her ONLY form of defence, because despite her bigging herself up as this wonderful person who virtually sees herself as flawless royalty, the truth is she actually sees herself as indefensible. I think this is true for a lot of bullies. |
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Also she does the thing Helen was doing by not allowing people to speak by repeating her point continually until they shut up.
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Her eyes don't appear dead to me.
I see tears about to form, glazed in remorse and sadness. I'm not a fan. It's the manipulation and pot stirring. Dropping little seeds here and there and seeking back up before she does anything. She'll say she says it how it is, and she does, but only after she's weighed up how other people will react and got them on side. She's self centred and rude. |
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She's also Passive/aggressive. It's not a description I like since it's branded about often when it's not correct but in this case, she is a prime example.
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If she is so disliked, why is she still in there?
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She is deeply unhappy with herself. All the bravado and faux beauty is to compensate for the fact that she knows she is a train wreck of a person.
When someone does something that could remotely, even slightly expose her imperfections she goes on the offensive, Offence isn't just her best form of defence, its her ONLY form of defence, because despite her bigging herself up as this wonderful person who virtually sees herself as flawless royalty, the truth is she actually sees herself as indefensible. I think this is true for a lot of bullies. |
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I think she truly believes she is popular and well liked outside of the house. I don't like Stephanie, but then I dislike bullies even more.
Why hasn't someone told her to"shut up you fat cow" yet? I'm sure there would be a collective cheer across the nation if they did. |
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If she is so disliked, why is she still in there?
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Because it's a vote to save and she has the same PR compnay as Peter Andre. In a vote to evict, she would have been a goner.
I had wondered why she hadn't done a weight loss and exercise video like Josie Gibson, Charlotte Crosby etc but then I realised she's too just bloody lazy. |
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That's very interesting. I'd no idea she had the same management company as PA.
I had wondered why she hadn't done a weight loss and exercise video like Josie Gibson, Charlotte Crosby etc but then I realised she's too just bloody lazy. The thing is, her career is based on her size to a certain extent so if she loses weight, she loses part of her fanbase who love her as big Gemma |
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She did lose 3 stone once and went down to a size 14 (more like 18) but said she didn't feel right being 'thin'
The thing is, her career is based on her size to a certain extent so if she loses weight, she loses part of her fanbase who love her as big Gemma |
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She did lose 3 stone once and went down to a size 14 (more like 18) but said she didn't feel right being 'thin'
The thing is, her career is based on her size to a certain extent so if she loses weight, she loses part of her fanbase who love her as big Gemma |
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I'm curious as to why the house (collectively) and GC in particular, are so offended by the term 'bully' considering all the other hateful things they call each other.
Could she have been bullied herself when younger? If so, it could have been a traumatic time in her life which she refuses, naively, to believe she's inflicting on others now? |
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Isn't her clothes line also reliant to some extent on her size. Admittedly she doesn't need to be large to sell clothes to the larger lady but she certainly uses it to promote it.
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Yes. I think her range is from size 16 upwards and so does depend to a certain extent to her staying big. I also think her whole GC persona is based on being 'big and fabulous' (in her own head)
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If she is so disliked, why is she still in there?
Also, vote to save is not as straightforward as vote to evict. |
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