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Tonight's HLs were an abject lesson in peer pressure
First, John notices the crusty knickers and reacts like a schoolboy. Okay, as homosexual men John and Christopher might never have witnessed that before but Darren, married with daughters (?) surely has. He just didn't know how to react under the circumstances (peer pressure) and didn't have the wherewithal to explain to two grown men how a vagina works. "We need to name and shame now", says John. Umm.. Okay John, whatever you say, mate.
John goes into the bedroom, acting all disgusted, and proceeds to ask who's disgusting enough to have left their disgusting knickers out like that, or words to that effect. Megan and Daniella vehemently deny ownership of said knickers but play along with the notion that such a thing is indeed disgusting (peer pressure). At that point Gemma intimated that 'discharge' as it's called (not 'pigeon shit') is fairly normal, but Daniella and Megan just drop their heads admonishing, "I ain't got no red knickers". When John finally asked Stephanie she knew straight away that they were her red knickers. John telling her that they were brought in from the bathroom was enough to confirm it for her, at which point she denied it. She felt like everyone was laughing at her so she denied her own bodily function! I think she would have quietly binned them if she could, but realized that she'd been 'outed'. I think what upset her the most is that, momentarily at least, she'd felt she had to deny it (peer pressure). Even Daniella ended up crying in the DR because she'd been called a bully. She was so desperate that other people don't believe she's a bully that she was moved to tears! ..Sorry for the long post. I guess I'm just waffling now.
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I agree with your take.
I think Darren had an opportunity to stand up and be counted, but failed yet again. And it pains me to say this and I know it won't be popular, but I must credit Gemma for saying it was normal and not reacting like the other two girls. Christopher did say at first that they should get rid of the knickers. But perhaps he too should have been a bit more upstanding. |
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First, John notices the crusty knickers and reacts like a schoolboy. Okay, as homosexual men John and Christopher might never have witnessed that before but Darren, married with daughters (?) surely has. He just didn't know how to react under the circumstances (peer pressure) and didn't have the wherewithal to explain to two grown men how a vagina works. "We need to name and shame now", says John. Umm.. Okay John, whatever you say, mate.
John goes into the bedroom, acting all disgusted, and proceeds to ask who's disgusting enough to have left their disgusting knickers out like that, or words to that effect. Megan and Daniella vehemently deny ownership of said knickers but play along with the notion that such a thing is indeed disgusting (peer pressure). At that point Gemma intimated that 'discharge' as it's called (not 'pigeon shit') is fairly normal, but Daniella and Megan just drop their heads admonishing, "I ain't got no red knickers". When John finally asked Stephanie she knew straight away that they were her red knickers. John telling her that they were brought in from the bathroom was enough to confirm it for her, at which point she denied it. She felt like everyone was laughing at her so she denied her own bodily function! I think she would have quietly binned them if she could, but realized that she'd been 'outed'. I think what upset her the most is that, momentarily at least, she'd felt she had to deny it (peer pressure). Even Daniella ended up crying in the DR because she'd been called a bully. She was so desperate that other people don't believe she's a bully that she was moved to tears! ..Sorry for the long post. I guess I'm just waffling now. ![]() Danielle is always really gobby when the person involved is not in the room. Ramping it up, Horrible woman, stirring like a witch. |
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I don't leave my knickers lying about and it isn't peer pressure that made me that way but my mother telling me to pick up after myself and take responsibility for my things. I guess in some peoples view that makes her a bully.
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I don't leave my knickers lying about and it isn't peer pressure that made me that way but my mother telling me to pick up after myself and take responsibility for my things. I guess in some peoples view that makes her a bully.
If no, then she's a very good mother. If yes, then sorry, your mum's a right nob. |
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I don't leave my knickers lying about and it isn't peer pressure that made me that way but my mother telling me to pick up after myself and take responsibility for my things. I guess in some peoples view that makes her a bully.
As for the rest of your post, what are you talking about? Nobody is claiming that your mother is/was a bully, or that tidying up after yourself has anything to do with peer pressure.
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First, John notices the crusty knickers and reacts like a schoolboy. Okay, as homosexual men John and Christopher might never have witnessed that before but Darren, married with daughters (?) surely has. He just didn't know how to react under the circumstances (peer pressure) and didn't have the wherewithal to explain to two grown men how a vagina works. "We need to name and shame now", says John. Umm.. Okay John, whatever you say, mate.
John goes into the bedroom, acting all disgusted, and proceeds to ask who's disgusting enough to have left their disgusting knickers out like that, or words to that effect. Megan and Daniella vehemently deny ownership of said knickers but play along with the notion that such a thing is indeed disgusting (peer pressure). At that point Gemma intimated that 'discharge' as it's called (not 'pigeon shit') is fairly normal, but Daniella and Megan just drop their heads admonishing, "I ain't got no red knickers". When John finally asked Stephanie she knew straight away that they were her red knickers. John telling her that they were brought in from the bathroom was enough to confirm it for her, at which point she denied it. She felt like everyone was laughing at her so she denied her own bodily function! I think she would have quietly binned them if she could, but realized that she'd been 'outed'. I think what upset her the most is that, momentarily at least, she'd felt she had to deny it (peer pressure). Even Daniella ended up crying in the DR because she'd been called a bully. She was so desperate that other people don't believe she's a bully that she was moved to tears! ..Sorry for the long post. I guess I'm just waffling now. ![]() |
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I don't leave my knickers lying about and it isn't peer pressure that made me that way but my mother telling me to pick up after myself and take responsibility for my things. I guess in some peoples view that makes her a bully.
I wonder how you would have felt, however, if when having the neighbours round for dinner she decided to teach you the rights and wrongs of leaving your knickers lying around by naming and shaming you and showing the contents to all and sundry. |
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Did she show your stained knickers to all the neighbours on the street first and let them all laugh and be disgusted by your dried vaginal fluids?
If no, then she's a very good mother. If yes, then sorry, your mum's a right nob. |
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I agree with your take.
I think Darren had an opportunity to stand up and be counted, but failed yet again. And it pains me to say this and I know it won't be popular, but I must credit Gemma for saying it was normal and not reacting like the other two girls. Christopher did say at first that they should get rid of the knickers. But perhaps he too should have been a bit more upstanding. |
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First, John notices the crusty knickers and reacts like a schoolboy. Okay, as homosexual men John and Christopher might never have witnessed that before but Darren, married with daughters (?) surely has. He just didn't know how to react under the circumstances (peer pressure) and didn't have the wherewithal to explain to two grown men how a vagina works. "We need to name and shame now", says John. Umm.. Okay John, whatever you say, mate.
John goes into the bedroom, acting all disgusted, and proceeds to ask who's disgusting enough to have left their disgusting knickers out like that, or words to that effect. Megan and Daniella vehemently deny ownership of said knickers but play along with the notion that such a thing is indeed disgusting (peer pressure). At that point Gemma intimated that 'discharge' as it's called (not 'pigeon shit') is fairly normal, but Daniella and Megan just drop their heads admonishing, "I ain't got no red knickers". When John finally asked Stephanie she knew straight away that they were her red knickers. John telling her that they were brought in from the bathroom was enough to confirm it for her, at which point she denied it. She felt like everyone was laughing at her so she denied her own bodily function! I think she would have quietly binned them if she could, but realized that she'd been 'outed'. I think what upset her the most is that, momentarily at least, she'd felt she had to deny it (peer pressure). Even Daniella ended up crying in the DR because she'd been called a bully. She was so desperate that other people don't believe she's a bully that she was moved to tears! ..Sorry for the long post. I guess I'm just waffling now. ![]() about the lot of 'em.
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Did she show your stained knickers to all the neighbours on the street first and let them all laugh and be disgusted by your dried vaginal fluids?
I think that's pretty normal rather than sign of great parenting. |
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I agree with this, but then when Gemma went to have a look at the pants, she said I'm sorry but that's not normal. Thus making it even more humiliating for Steph.
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No she taught be to clean up after myself before I hit puberty. Right after she stopped changing my nappies. And way before I hit 22.
I think that's pretty normal rather than sign of great parenting. Fortunately she didn't therefore she wasn't. |
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It''s a mother''s job to teach her children these things.
I wonder how you would have felt, however, if when having the neighbours round for dinner she decided to teach you the rights and wrongs of leaving your knickers lying around by naming and shaming you and showing the contents to all and sundry. |
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No she taught be to clean up after myself before I hit puberty. Right after she stopped changing my nappies. And way before I hit 22.
I think that's pretty normal rather than sign of great parenting.
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There is a word for straight men who obsess over the secretions in the underwear of young women who they are not sexually involved with = PERVERT there is a word for Gay men who are horrified at the idea of the normal workings of a woman's vagina = Misogynist There are also words for older, less attractive, women who jump at the chance to humiliate a young girl about what's in her knickers = nasty, gossiping, jealous, fat, old ugly biaatches. Jeremy and Tiffany are the only two people in that house to emerge from those sordid scenes with a modicum of dignity.
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It was John who did that not any of the women. theg just laughed about it. As did Jeremy.
Over the last few days that boy has gone up in my estimation. |
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The only person who genuinely laughed about it sincerely was Jeremy. The only man who acted with any decorum was Jeremy. The only person who did not succumb to peer pressure which is what the thread is about was Jeremy.
Over the last few days that boy has gone up in my estimation. Oh, and obviously Tiffany comported herself well. She was rightly astounded that the other women had allowed that to happen, I think. |
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There is a word for straight men who obsess over the secretions in the underwear of young women who they are not sexually involved with = PERVERT there is a word for Gay men who are horrified at the idea of the normal workings of a woman's vagina = Misogynist There are also words for older, less attractive, women who jump at the chance to humiliate a young girl about what's in her knickers = nasty, gossiping, jealous, fat, old ugly biaatches. Jeremy and Tiffany are the only two people in that house to emerge from those sordid scenes with a modicum of dignity.
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I'm a woman and if I had handled soiled underwear or seen it on the dining table I would react with an uuuugggh too. It doesn't mean the gay men are "horrified at the idea of the normal workings of a woman's vagina".
They brought the laundry out of the bathroom and put it on the table. I don't think any of them were then disgusted about it being on the table.
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The only person who genuinely laughed about it sincerely was Jeremy. The only man who acted with any decorum was Jeremy. The only person who did not succumb to peer pressure which is what the thread is about was Jeremy.
Over the last few days that boy has gone up in my estimation. |
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Someone should have stopped the situation from spiralling as it did. I am shocked it got so much attention, it was very school playground behaviour.
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I'm a woman and if I had handled soiled underwear or seen it on the dining table I would react with an uuuugggh too. It doesn't mean the gay men are "horrified at the idea of the normal workings of a woman's vagina".
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John acted like a 12 year old. God imagine if he found blood in her knickers. He would of had a breakdown!
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Nobody is claiming that your mother is/was a bully, or that tidying up after yourself has anything to do with peer pressure.
about the lot of 'em.