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Old 24-01-2016, 11:02
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only goal in life, is to take advantage of as many young vulnerable drunk girls as he possibly can.

If it was a woman in his place, who've slept with hundreds of guys. She would have been out first week. I'm no feminist but it's just shows how broken our current society is.

I would be ashamed is my daughter was dating a guy like that. He's a complete tosser and I don't understand how anyone could vote for a guy who will stop at nothing and has no regard for anyone or anything, just to get a shag.
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Old 24-01-2016, 11:04
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That's today's society for you. A few series ago the winner was a woman who wet the bed while in the house
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Old 24-01-2016, 11:13
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David Cameron likes to talk about "big society". I think he needs to start talking about our broken society. No doubt there will be girls voting for Scotty. I just hoped members of our society have more self respect than that. It's effectively accepting and awarding disgusting behavior like that.

How many young men will be watching wanting to do what Scotty does? Take advantage of as many young girls as you can. Then get a couple of TV reality deals and become a millionaire.
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Old 24-01-2016, 11:14
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only goal in life, is to take advantage of as many young vulnerable drunk girls as he possibly can.

If it was a woman in his place, who've slept with hundreds of guys. She would have been out first week. I'm no feminist but it's just shows how broken our current society is.

I would be ashamed is my daughter was dating a guy like that. He's a complete tosser and I don't understand how anyone could vote for a guy who will stop at nothing and has no regard for anyone or anything, just to get a shag.
Well said! I couldn't have said it better myself.
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Old 24-01-2016, 11:23
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David Cameron likes to talk about "big society". I think he needs to start talking about our broken society. No doubt there will be girls voting for Scotty. I just hoped members of our society have more self respect than that. It's effectively accepting and awarding disgusting behavior like that.

How many young men will be watching wanting to do what Scotty does? Take advantage of as many young girls as you can. Then get a couple of TV reality deals and become a millionaire.
BiB: why assume women who enjoy sex are being taken advantage of? It may be weird to you and me, but some people enjoy sex and don't have time for a relationship, or just plain don't want one, so they have one night stands or a sex-buddy type of thing in place. As far as I'm concerned, grown ups making the decision to have sex with whoever they want doesn't mean that they're being taken advantage of, just because they're women. And they ARE women: the people he's having sex with are grown ups, not children. They're able to make up their own minds about who they have sex with, and when they want to have sex.

It may not be the way I live my life, but I'm not going to judge anyone who enjoys sex and does it in a consensual way.
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Old 24-01-2016, 11:43
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People are too quick to judge. Consenting adults can do what they like! If that's having sex with 300 people then so be it.
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Old 24-01-2016, 11:46
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only goal in life, is to take advantage of as many young vulnerable drunk girls as he possibly can.

If it was a woman in his place, who've slept with hundreds of guys. She would have been out first week. I'm no feminist but it's just shows how broken our current society is.

I would be ashamed is my daughter was dating a guy like that. He's a complete tosser and I don't understand how anyone could vote for a guy who will stop at nothing and has no regard for anyone or anything, just to get a shag.
Totally agree.
I really do hope he doesn't win.
I'd rather boring Darren win it than Scotty T.
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Old 24-01-2016, 11:53
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Has his promiscuity anything to do with his inabiliy to stand still?
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Old 24-01-2016, 11:55
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People are too quick to judge. Consenting adults can do what they like! If that's having sex with 300 people then so be it.
Then they should just go ahead and do it instead of bragging about it to the whole world. What makes them think we're interested anyway? If anything, I find someone who brags about their sex life a complete and utter turn off and would probably stay well clear of them.
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Old 24-01-2016, 11:56
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I don't care how many women he's slept with, I don't want him to win because he's a bore. He's done nothing on the show about from hang out with awful Megan.

Darren is just a bore.

I swear, I'd rather have Gemma win than Scotty or Darren.

I really hope John and Tiff are the last two standing, they've entertained us on a consistent basis.
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Old 24-01-2016, 11:57
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only goal in life, is to take advantage of as many young vulnerable drunk girls as he possibly can.

If it was a woman in his place, who've slept with hundreds of guys. She would have been out first week. I'm no feminist but it's just shows how broken our current society is.

I would be ashamed is my daughter was dating a guy like that. He's a complete tosser and I don't understand how anyone could vote for a guy who will stop at nothing and has no regard for anyone or anything, just to get a shag.
But Charlotte Crosby comes from the same show, and comes across as the female equivalent of Scotty, yet she won CBB easily because enough people liked her antics and personality to vote her the winner... similarly Vicki that won in the jungle last year.

Scotty seems quite open about it, he doesn't seem to be tricking women into anything. If people (men or women) are incapable of making safe decisions when under the influence of alcohol - perhaps they should be more careful where they're getting drunk, as there are a lot of people out there with far more sinister motives than Scotty.
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Old 24-01-2016, 12:02
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Totally agree.
I really do hope he doesn't win.
I'd rather boring Darren win it than Scotty T.
Winston's done more in the house than Darren, and he left over a week ago!
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Old 24-01-2016, 12:04
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BiB: why assume women who enjoy sex are being taken advantage of? It may be weird to you and me, but some people enjoy sex and don't have time for a relationship, or just plain don't want one, so they have one night stands or a sex-buddy type of thing in place. As far as I'm concerned, grown ups making the decision to have sex with whoever they want doesn't mean that they're being taken advantage of, just because they're women. And they ARE women: the people he's having sex with are grown ups, not children. They're able to make up their own minds about who they have sex with, and when they want to have sex.

It may not be the way I live my life, but I'm not going to judge anyone who enjoys sex and does it in a consensual way.
I couldn't agree with you more. It often befuddles me, as a nearly 53-year-old woman who has had a fair share of sexual partners over the years - by choice - why, in this day-and-age, people still talk as if women aren't able to sleep with whoever they choose, whenever they choose.

Are there women out there saying Scotty took advantage of them, or are they women who have decided they fancy sleeping with him and did so? It seems to me that the second one is the answer, in which case - as long as they all practice safe sex - who the hell gives a shit?

But Charlotte Crosby comes from the same show, and comes across as the female equivalent of Scotty, yet she won CBB easily because enough people liked her antics and personality to vote her the winner... similarly Vicki that won in the jungle last year.

Scotty seems quite open about it, he doesn't seem to be tricking women into anything. If people (men or women) are incapable of making safe decisions when under the influence of alcohol - perhaps they should be more careful where they're getting drunk, as there are a lot of people out there with far more sinister motives than Scotty.
To be fair to Vicky, she won the jungle because she kept her sense of humour, aced her tasks without complaining and was very funny. She threw herself into the show and deserved to win (off-topic, sorry ).
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Old 24-01-2016, 12:05
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Another non-entity is popular so who is voting for him?
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Old 24-01-2016, 12:16
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It's true that Scotty is very up front with not wanting a girlfriend and trying to sleep with as many as possible so any woman who sleeps with him knows there is going to be no romance. He admits to threesomes and foursomes so it is clear to all parties that this is just no strings sex.

However, it all comes unstuck when he boasts about his prowess and what girls do to him in double quick time. It is all so crass and ungentlemanly. To him it's not that the women want the sex just like him, it's all down to his attractiveness and persuasive talents. He does not seem to respect the girls but treats them as bits of meat.

He has said that when he settles down - ?? - he does not want a woman like him ie a promiscuous one. Terrible double standards.
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Old 24-01-2016, 12:20
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It's true that Scotty is very up front with not wanting a girlfriend and trying to sleep with as many as possible so any woman who sleeps with him knows there is going to be no romance. He admits to threesomes and foursomes so it is clear to all parties that this is just no strings sex.

However, it all comes unstuck when he boasts about his prowess and what girls do to him in double quick time. It is all so crass and ungentlemanly. To him it's not that the women want the sex just like him, it's all down to his attractiveness and persuasive talents. He does not seem to respect the girls but treats them as bits of meat.

He has said that when he settles down - ?? - he does not want a woman like him ie a promiscuous one. Terrible double standards.
Of course, what we don't know is whether the girls about whom he is speaking also go home and talk about what they did to him, boast about it even (I slept with that bloke of Geordie Shore ), etc. Women can be known to boast about their sexual antics just as much as men.

It's true, though, that it's neither ladylike nor gentlemanly to talk about it, certainly not on TV. On the other hand, he's made a living at being like this hasn't he?
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Old 24-01-2016, 12:32
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When he's on Ex on the Beach he boasts about how quick he can seduce the girls and the girls are sheepish about it, not proud.

But who knows what is said up in Newcastle.

It's true he has made a good living from this way of life and he seems happy enough but the constant boasting grates with me.

Apart from his extreme promiscuity and vulgar talk, he does appear to be grounded and quite practical. He isn't a drama queen and has not lost his temper with anyone. Most of the housemates like him.
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Old 24-01-2016, 12:32
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I've heard nothing to suggest he takes advantage of anyone .. Its not like he is deceiving them into sleeping with him ... if anything his openness freely admitting he has slept with so many lets the women who choose to sleep with him know exactly what to expect.
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Old 24-01-2016, 12:40
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I'm surprised at how many girls are keen to have casual sex with a user like him.

I would be worried about catching something. But these trashy types seem to be popular, I can't see the attraction myself.
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Old 24-01-2016, 12:54
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When he's on Ex on the Beach he boasts about how quick he can seduce the girls and the girls are sheepish about it, not proud.

But who knows what is said up in Newcastle.

It's true he has made a good living from this way of life and he seems happy enough but the constant boasting grates with me.

Apart from his extreme promiscuity and vulgar talk, he does appear to be grounded and quite practical. He isn't a drama queen and has not lost his temper with anyone. Most of the housemates like him.
I agree with that, yes. He does seem to be liked by everybody, joins in with everything, cooks, seems to clean, an all-rounder. Not very exciting as a housemate, but they seem to enjoy living with him and he has offered some sage advice to Jeremy and Stephanie - and had the guts to nominate her, he's surprised me in some ways.
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Old 24-01-2016, 12:55
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My problem with him is he is so featureless. Even when he is involved in a scene (which is rare) he is just there with a blank look on his face. Even when someone speaks to him he just stares blankley back. He could be a prop for the difference it makes.
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Old 24-01-2016, 13:18
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I'm surprised at how many girls are keen to have casual sex with a user like him.

I would be worried about catching something. But these trashy types seem to be popular, I can't see the attraction myself.
We live in a very shallow, materialistic age and too many girls have so little a sense of self-worth that they fill the void with shopping, trying to copy other reality stars, who to them no doubt show you can achieve a certain high life with little or no talent and sex out of context of love and committment is seen as just something cheap and normal, with little or no consequence, something to be used as a means of trying to fill the void. Given also that so many can't seem to be able to have a good time without getting half cut so what little sense they do have goes out of the window as they just want to grasp the moment.

Of course there is nothing wrong with consensual sex but when it is sex by numbers for numbers sake, or because they are staggering from one person to another desparately seeking to fill some void then it becomes deeply unhealthy, both spiritually, emotionally and physically and what we are very often left with is extremely shallow vacuous people who whilst they may be nice enough in themselves, do not have much to offer either themselves or anyone else. Tall trees need deep roots.
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Old 24-01-2016, 13:18
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My problem with him is he is so featureless. Even when he is involved in a scene (which is rare) he is just there with a blank look on his face. Even when someone speaks to him he just stares blankley back. He could be a prop for the difference it makes.
Yes, I know what you mean. He's one of the housemates that the others all love, probably because he is a go-with-the-flow, easy-going kind of guy that doesn't get involved in drama or cause a stir. To them that's a relief and he's easy to be around. Doesn't make great TV, but probably rather nice to live with!
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