Chris probably isn't heartbroken. There is no evidence that he was thinking long term commitment or marriage. Not even entirely sure they were living together full time. Maybe Chris will be on the next CBB and/or I'm a Celebrity... From what I've read, he is no angel but (unless it really is a pre-arranged set up) no-one should watch their partner behave like Stephanie has so publically and sustained over a long period by which I mean a one off tipsy flirty kiss at a party may (or may not) be forgiven but not the daily antics we have seen.

If it means he gets some work out if it & probably no shortage of young women wanted to fill the girlfriend vacancy, then fair play.

I don't think its fair to say that Sam isn't heartbroken because he isn't making a public display of his upset and is dealing with it. He's obviously upset otherwise he wouldn't have made the comment about no longer supporting her, or the one where he said he wouldn't dump her until they spoke face to face. What do you expect him to do? Stay home watching Steph twist the knife every night?

I think we are overcomplicating things, and trying to make excuses for everyone involved. but the truth is simple,

Steph's a cheat.
Jeremy is a homewrecker.
Sam has been cheated on.

You just can't get away from these facts, and dress it up however you like - it still is what it is.

I don't by that Dr Z at all if she "really" loved her boyfriend she would have stopped Jeremy in he's tracks and said i'm taken, she gave him the green light from the start, so i wouldn't class Jeremy a home wrecker IMO the onus was on her to stop it as she was taken.

Agree with all that you say except that Sam (sorry, I said Chris earlier by mistake) while upset & angry, and who wouldn't be after seeing their girlfriend repeatedly snogging another bloke in bed) may not be heartbroken. If he liked her but wasn't deeply in love with her & hadn't planned to marry her of commit to a long term relationship then heartbroken isn't quite the right word. Maybe as the days have past, he is thinking he has had a lucky escape.

That's another thing about Steph. She has been milking the "I'm only a young girl of 22" song for all its worth while saying that she hoped to marry Sam. People who see themselves as young girls rather than young women shouldn't be contemplating marriage. So she sees go herself as adult and mature enough to wed?

I don't agree. In a situation where the "third party" is 100% aware that the object of his desires is taken, there is joint responsibility in my opinion.

Of course, you may be right, but what I'm saying is that its not a forgone conclusion either way. Us men are known for not publicly displaying our feelings, Hopefully (for his sake!) he is, as you say counting his blessings on a lucky escape - but just because we don't see him crying for the cameras doesn't mean he isn't torn apart either.

Only Sam knows.

Looks to me like Stephanie didn't feel she was cheating , as for all we know they were on the rocks when she went in to the house. I was slating her to start with but from her own friends comments this Sam BF wasn't such a great guy afterall.

Jeremy's not a homewrecker, Stephanie gave him signals from the very start, he could have backed off yes, but in that house with sweet f.a. going on they both are consenting adults , and she can't have felt that there was much to wreck the fact she's got really into Jeremy and her BF wasn't even forefront of her mind.

She said she'd blocked the BF out of her head while in there as she missed him so much, but letting another guy get so intimate she's behaved like she was starved of attention which doesn't say much for the relationship she went in there with.

As it is now, they are two single (probably) young people who've got close on a tv reality show and whether that friendship is nothing more than helping them get through this show or not we'll see in time. The BB house is a bubble it's not the real world, and David Gest doesn't believe it's real and he's been in there with them. They may feel differently once out the house and go back to their family friends and lives. The attention will be on Stephanie's next move,not so much Jeremy's.

I'm saying I doubt he is heartbroken. If it were my partner doing that I'd be under my duvet. Certainly I wouldn't be taking advantage of new PA opportunities. But we all cope differently.

Maybe Steph doesn't think it's cheating unless she actually has "proper" sex with someone else, is that full on snogging, cuddling & a bit of groping doesn't count somehow. Rather in the Bill Clinton "I did not have sex with that woman" sense. Mind you, Steph would probably think that Bill Clinton is a to chef! Lol

I imagine he was absolutely gutted watching his girlfriend of 8 months (or 2 years as she said) all over another guy and him her,how could he not be, if he felt their relationship was secure and he had feelings for her. Enough time has passed now for hurt to turn to anger and utter contempt.

he seems to be going about his bookings and just working
the extra attention that he's getting he may feel right now he'd rather do without

Once he's over the humiliation and hurt , his career will naturally have taken an unexpected boost,long term which he is bound to welcome !

He's in a very frustrating position,he can't get to her and have it out with her, so he has to wait and every time she's up for nomination he must be on tenterhooks if she's going to be getting out that house , and even when she does , she'll have the usual engagements she's got to do under her contract,

any meeting with him could be via a very awkward phone call to start, one i am sure neither of them will find easy. If he wants to speak to her at all that is. There's the flat , their stuff that's in it, and the dog that's got to be sorted out, it's all going to be very awkward all round,

Yeah, maybe she's told him that if she kisses a lad in there, it'll just be because she wants to progress further in the game. Saying this though, Sam didn't turn up on the night that Stephanie could have been evicted. Maybe she has wrecked her relationship with Sam.

I have thought all a long an agreement with Sam. I would not be surprised if he dumps her for his own gain.

no way
He's already said he wouldn't even entertain such a ridiculous notion

it must be hard for him to keep fairly quiet and out of the CBBH,he gets my vote for not dumping her via FB,let him do that face to face

That is if he ever wants anything to do with her after the show ends

I don't believe I've actually seen Stephanie snogging Jeremy. I think it's all a set up, the boyfriend is definitely in on it. So is Jeremy. Why on earth would he go straight to Stephanie, wake her up and tell her he's snogged Tiffany? Then, when she doesn't react, he pushes and pushes until she responds. It was all a bit lighthearted and if anybody was trying to get mileage out of it, it was Jeremy. Every time Tiffany is involved in is a set up, by Big Brother. Steph conveniently in bed, Steph really not bothered until Jeremy had to remind her by repeating it over and over. Even if the 'relationship' isn't a set up, I see Jeremy as the one manipulating Steph, who clearly behaves very immaturely. If that's not an act. This year, everything seems like an act though

Its weird my take is maybe Jeremy told her for a reaction, because she keeps going on about her boyfriend and he got a reaction that suggests that she was jealous when she wasn't talking to him who knows

Finally

1) Steph now wants to be SINGLE
2) Jeremy says he'll book a weeks holiday for them if they still get on after the show
3) Steph realises she's always accepted being second best , not no more
4) They are in agreement to wait and see after the show what happens next
5) Jeremy says he loves Stephanie, and she needs to be treated like a princess


Thank christ for that

I thought he was just telling her before any one else did. Scotty T or Gemma could have teased her about it and made it out to be worse than it was.

To a caravan near the council estate on the outskirts of Dublin