Originally Posted by sheils1:
“Hey look just because you live with someone doesnt mean you have to stay with that person, all i can say is if your not happy in a relationship and meet someone else who you feel you could be happy with then go for it.
Relationships are not perfect and break up all the time.”
Of course nobody should have to stay in an unhappy relationship. They do break up all the time and should if people aren't happy.
You also don't choose when you meet people. You csan be in a relationship and meet somebody else that you fall for and want to be with, in which case you need to end the first relationship and be with the new person you have fallen for.
But there are ways of doing it which don't include humiliating the person you are dumping on National TV.
If she was unhappy, why didn't she end the relationship before going in to the House? Is she the type of girl that will stay in an unhappy relationship just because she needs to be with somebody (anybody) and only end it with the next boyfriend in place? Some people are like that and actually shows a distinct lack of self worth in my opinion (they only matter if they have the validation of being in a romance) but maybe she is like that.
If it is a case of her just having met somebody else and fallen for them, then she should have had the sense (and kindness) to realise that shek5 need to end her relationship with Sam and it would be best to do in private, not have him be made to look stupid by her getting off with the next one. 4 weeks isn't that long, she could have just said to Jeremy we need to keep our distance in here out of consideration for my boyfriend who I need to dump. Or she could even have asked to leave early to deal with it.
But the fact is, she spent the first two weeks saying it was nothing, she loved Sam, that her relationship with Jeremy was just mates and other people were making it into something it wasn't.
So clearly, she doesn't view her public displays of affection towards him to be cheating. And yet, she didn't want Sam to know about it and felt betrayed by people like Sam mentioning it.
I'm not saying it is wrong - what she does is up to her and maybe she and Sam have an understanding but it doesn't equate to my understanding of relationships and how you behave with your friends and she hasn't indicated that her relationship with Sam was casual, open or troubled.