For me:
When I was in my early 20s I was definitely Steph. Immature, reacting just for now now rather than thinking about the long game, slovenly ( to much fun to be had to spend my time washing and cleaning) and pretty volatile.
Now maybe I've morphed into someone a bit more like Darren. Sit in the fence more, life experience says things are usually more grey than black or white and I don't have the appetite or energy for controversy. Learnt a lot of life lessons and am not the same person I was when I was younger. Still care about what people think about me way too much and get hurt when people treat me or think of me how I would expect ( so wish I could change that).
You?
When I was in my early 20s I was definitely Steph. Immature, reacting just for now now rather than thinking about the long game, slovenly ( to much fun to be had to spend my time washing and cleaning) and pretty volatile.
Now maybe I've morphed into someone a bit more like Darren. Sit in the fence more, life experience says things are usually more grey than black or white and I don't have the appetite or energy for controversy. Learnt a lot of life lessons and am not the same person I was when I was younger. Still care about what people think about me way too much and get hurt when people treat me or think of me how I would expect ( so wish I could change that).
You?