I agree. And nor do you or the tabloids.

It seems for anyone wishing to make a judgement on the photographs, they make a simple choice between thinking well or thinking badly about people into whom - and circumstances into which - they have no actual insight.

Best not be judgy, I say.

I agree about us knowing very little to make judgements on.

BIB
In the case of the tabloids, they need to use whatever photos they can gather to sell newspapers, and selecting and interpreting the photos by them is going to be in one direction and that is the case they will make. There is no mileage in 'Strictly couple get along well'.

On Digitalspy, I expect people to make judgements and it's interesting to see different opinions on things.
IMO persons being discussed on here do well to ignore DS though - and carry on their lives as they think is best.

And neither do you. You can think they are having an affair, but you don't actually know they are, just like those of who think they aren't don't actually know for sure that they aren't.

I never said I did.

I wonder how they will cope not being together every day? I think it will effect Jay more as he doesn't have much else going on in his life. Not sure who this phantom girlfriend in America is that some people have referred to, must be the best kept secret in the world. Maybe Vincent will let Jay move into the spare room; it worked for the former Mrs. Stephen Hawking.

They managed fine over Christmas, I'm sure they'll be perfectly ok They're not surgically joined at the hip! I don't know what Jay's planning now, but I imagine as a popular SCD winner there'll be at least a few media appearances on the table.

I think this person is who most are referring to: https://twitter.com/WhereIsJayMcG
It's an account that documents photos from all their outings together and they're at least very good friends. Nobody knows who she is though and the DM's best investigative 'journalists' haven't been able to uncover anything so they're very good at staying out the spotlight if so.

You made it sound like only those defending them and saying they aren't having an affair don't know what's going on "behind closed doors."

Well maybe what I should have said was nobody knows either way.

Jay said he was single at the start of Strictly. The girl who runs this twitter account was his girlfriend but are now just friends (as far as I am aware).

Aliona could have came out of that venue stradlling and snogging Jay and the fans would say they were practising a rumba.....anyway I can't see anything comming out off this,maybe Jay likes the opposite sex....would explain the hubby being so comfortable and Aliona for that matter!

You make a lot of good points and I can see that these photos could be interpreted as not appropriate. I am not a fan of their partnership although I liked Jay as a technician I struggled to see the connection between himself and Aliona. It could be possible that they are very close as friends and that her husband is fine with that. I really hope that there is nothing more to it

What you say is true (first part).
Ok, if that's it (hubby comfortable) would it explain Aliona's actions too?
I kind of believe that her husband was OK with everything because this is the last one of her getting any more dance partners, she's quit.
On the other hand he maried a dancer, he should have known her and as he chose her to be his wife, he should have been ok with everything she does.

I do agree being married to a dancer you can expect them being close to dance partners on the dance floor......her hubby probably is used to it......but,there is no doubt that Aliona and Jay look smitten off the dance floor as much as on it.....now whatever it is they have going on,friendship or whatever,it's enough to make people sit up and notice.....papers,forums,facebook......I was trying to think of a reason why her hubby would be comfortable with the whole situation!

Because he knows his wife, knows how she acts on and off camera and its him she goes home with at night?

Exactly she's always been a tactile person, that's her character before she even arrived to strictly so for the people who think she's suddenly created this persona you are completely wrong on all levels sorry to sadden you but she's always been that way, glad she is she shouldn't change the way she acts or is because some people sitting behind their devices don't like it. Her husband knew perfectly well how she was and is and how she acts with people and how likeable she is probably why the guy fell for her.

Well maybe you should ask him

The only thing that astonishes me is the unhealthy interest some people have in other people's love lives.
I guess assuming innocent till proved otherwise doesn't give much opportunity for nudge nudge wink wink

[quote=Ano;81556031]Exactly she's always been a tactile person, that's her character before she even arrived to strictly so for the people who think she's suddenly created this persona you are completely wrong on all levels sorry to sadden you but she's always been that way, glad she is she shouldn't change the way she acts or is because some people sitting behind their devices don't like it. Her husband knew perfectly well how she was and is and how she acts with people and how likeable she is probably why the guy fell for her.[/QUOTE
well she has never been in the papers accused off cheating or being in love with any off her other partners....pro or celeb....those latest pictures in the DM are way too intimate....and it seems a lot of people agree....anyway the hubby looks lke a mug.....I understand you're loyalty tho

Yeah loads of married people having affairs go home to their husband /wife at night

well she has never been in the papers accused off cheating or being in love with any off her other partners....pro or celeb....those latest pictures in the DM are way too intimate....and it seems a lot of people agree....anyway the hubby looks lke a mug.....I understand you're loyalty tho[/quote]

I don't think the pictures look in the least intimate and nor do I think her husband is a mug and I an guessing a lot of people agree with me. I think it is you rather than the paper's who are accusing , they are just relying on innuendo to encourage the people who like a good gossip

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Wow really Aliona's husband a mug?? Let's analyse that shall we I'm pretty certain she's a good judge of character which is why she married Vincent he seems extremely likeable just like her from some of the encounters some of the posters on DS have had with him. I assume you have not met the guy so calling him a mug is pretty inaccurate as are all of your assumptions made in your post, and yes call it loyalty and call it respect.

I don't think the pictures look in the least intimate and nor do I think her husband is a mug and I an guessing a lot of people agree with me. I think it is you rather than the paper's who are accusing , they are just relying on innuendo to encourage the people who like a good gossip[/quote]

Really......must just be me and the hundreds off people on the comments section and on fb who think that the photos look intimate.....if you think otherwise then goid for you.

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My opinion...... as you have yours.....so unless you know her personally you can inly guess...just like me.

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I know which root I would rather take..

Thing is you think you have a right to know or speculate whereas I know it is absolutely none of our business.

They danced on a show, they didn't sell us a bit of their souls